Sep 01

Angry emasculating woman

Many times we are faced with the unfortunate situation of squaring off with our “better half” over a disagreement. Some couples settle things passive aggressively, some come to fisticuffs (don’t do it fellas) and others come to a ground and go right back to loving one another.

For the people who aren’t fortunate enough to settle things in a fight – the worst things are said, heard and remembered. These verbal barbs are sometimes worse than punches as they stay with you forever and can make for you to really hate your partner.

The following list contains some of the most venomous words heard by men when their women are intent on causing hurt. For you men reading, let me know if any have been left out.

10 Things Women Say in Arguments To Hurt Men

  1. It’s funny how much you hate your father when you’re just like him in every way.
  2. You need to go find you a (insert race) girl.
  3. That’s why you have a little dick!
  4. I fucked your friend Mike when you were on that business trip.
  5. I knew I should have never got with your broke ass.
  6. I wanted my babies to have (insert feature that man lacks) anyway.
  7. Man up! I bet you have a bigger pussy than mine!
  8. You need to take your mother’s titty out your mouth. Momma’s boy!
  9. All my friends say you’re gay and on the down low.
  10. I didn’t say that I wouldn’t get married. I just don’t want to marry you.

Every time someone posts a list like this there is an echo of “I didn’t mean it when I said it, I just wanted to hurt him at the time” and we completely get it. But this doesn’t mean that it wasn’t a messed up thing to say in the first place. Lady denizens, are you guilty of saying a few of these things? Bully up and let us know.

See some words or phrases that you don't understand? Check out The Dragon's Lexicon.
  • Ouch! Those are some hurtful things to say, but there are plenty of women who will say them without a second thought just because they are upset. It makes no sense.

    You have a great site! I definitely will be swinging by more often.

    Feel free to check out my blog…if you like (up4dsn.worpress.com)

    Great post.

    *J

    • Hey J, thanks for the support. I’ve had the “you need to go find you a white girl” attack thrown at me from an ex and I remember I couldn’t forget it through our whole thing afterwards. To her it was just a spare of the moment attack but to me it was poison. Not because of the “white girl” blast but because she was trying to say that I wasn’t fit to date a black woman – which is garbage.

      I’ll definitely be checking out Up 4 Discussion and will add it to the blogroll so that other Denizens check you out too. Peace.

      • Yeah, I can’t only imagine what kind of strain that must have added to your relationship. I don’t think some women realize the blows and damage they deal with the things they say. Some women talk so often and freely that they have lost sight of the power and effects that their words can have.

        I really appreciate that. I will add your website to my blogroll also.

  • McThick

    You forgot: “You should be ashamed of yourself, you’re supposed to be a grown [ass] man!”

  • Sean M

    My ex-girlfriend actually said to me the following:

    1. You need to find a black woman (I’m white and Native American)
    2. You’re a pussy.
    3. It’s either you choose your family or choose me. There’s no both.
    4. You’re lazy (even though I did the vast majority of the housework and she did Jack
    and Jack left the country a long time ago.
    5. You’re controlling (because I wanted her to help out with the house chores).
    6. You’re selfish (because every once in a while I did something for myself)

    Now you know why I dropped her like a deadly habit.

    • Keep Walking

      She’s happier now 🙂

      Keep walking, stop posting longing beta ish about her and get over her

  • Hawk

    10 Things Women Say in Arguments To Hurt Men
    bring it on!!!

    It’s funny how much you hate your father when you’re just like him in every way.
    I know that. thats why i hate him, he shows me whats so bad about me but in the worst possible way.

    You need to go find you a (insert race) girl.
    Mwuhahaha! last (insert race) girl i went out with redirected me straight to you!

    That’s why you have a little dick!
    no, thats why i have a big dick dumbass.

    I fucked your friend Mike when you were on that business trip.
    now i know another reason you can’t get enough of me!

    I knew I should have never got with your broke ass.
    i wasn’t broke when you got together with me, those ass holes stole mah damn money!

    I wanted my babies to have (insert feature that man lacks) anyway.
    nobody’s perfect, (woman’s name).

    Man up! I bet you have a bigger pussy than mine!
    then i must be a hermaphrodite, how convenient!

    You need to take your mother’s titty out your mouth. Momma’s boy!
    Nice one, but tell that to yourself after getting your dad’s dick (wait, what? I’ve never had this one pulled on me.)

    All my friends say you’re gay and on the down low.
    they are about as gay as you are, and you’re not. besides, it doesn’t matter if they are on the down low, your friends are literally no better.

    I didn’t say that I wouldn’t get married. I just don’t want to marry you.
    Now, what is the difference between those two phrases? Where is the logic behind this?

  • Scarlett o hara

    As an upfront serial dater, I refuse to engage in arguments with men and simply wont see them again.
    Everyone wins 🙂
    They don’t have to change anything about themselves and I am with people who don’t make me angry.