As I get older and arguably wiser, I begin to notice certain things about the English language and the misunderstanding of simple concepts by its users. Being an admirer of the female body and being around fellow admirers who talk, I sometimes notice that a lot of guys don’t get it when the word “sexy” is used. We all know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder but so is the aspect of sexy, the term is purely subjective. What is sexy for me should have a lot of supporters but I shouldn’t be surprised when someone disagrees – this is the reasoning behind fetishes, tastes etc. While some men will look for a banging body (some like a big ass, some like a big bosom, others need both) others just require a beautiful face or killer legs. The thing that brings these men together in agreement however is the sexiness factor.

What is Sexy?
Sexy as stated before is subjective, many guys would not be able to fully give you an explanation as to what sexy is. I can tell you this though, sexy relates to sex, sexy is what gets the heart moving, makes the loins yearn and pushes past your “tastes” to make you think “Damn I would beat the brakes off that!” That is the kind of emotion that a woman being sexy can evoke. A guy who normally looks at images of Vida Guerra, Melissa Ford, and thick voluptuous women, will push past these women unconsciously to get with a super-skinny woman just because he’s seen her move, walk, talk and her sexiness blows them away. While many of you may disagree, you must admit that sexy out-weigh’s fine in many situations and could lead to you sleeping with a woman who you normally would not even look at… on paper.

Examples of Sexy
Now this list is from the Dragon, my idea of sexy may not be in lines with yours, but I tell you what, I will use these examples to explain the word in hopes of you understanding my point. The following list is of three women who I consider sexy and another three who the media pushes as sexy but are far from it:

Sexiness Unabated
Mya Harrison – Let me start the sexy list off with a woman that encompasses both worlds. Mya looks great on paper and even better in action. When the Lady Marmalade video came out, it was quite obvious to me who the real “Queen B” was and Mya gives a man that drunken must-have of a gaze when she does her routine. Now that is what I call sexy.

Kylie Minogue – Kylie’s body type is nowhere near what I would consider my “type”, but put on one of her videos or show her walking down the street and I have to wipe the drool falling from my mouth. Kylie has it, her every movement is pure sexiness, you all know it’s true. The little boomerang has it and I bow to the hawte.

Jaime Pressly – Jaime does her share of bad movies and has a southern twang that normally grates my nerves, but she is all that as far as I’m concerned. Petite which is outside of my realm of “fine” but her dress, walk, talk and slight mannerisms make me want to do very bad things with her. Jaime Pressly is sexy, I can argue that all day long.

Not Sexy but Arguably Fine
Kim Kardashian – After seeing the sex tape and her horrible attempts at dancing, I wonder about this girl. Add to this the whining and the “not so hot” voice and it seems that Kim’s only appeal lies in photographs. Kim K is not sexy, never has been and probably never will be.

Beyonce Knowles – This is where I will get the most disagreement due to the nature of the beast. Beyonce is fine, I do not argue that point and would be a madman if I thought otherwise. However, I don’t find her particularly sexy and her role as Foxxy Cleopatra on Austin Powers 3 failed where the two women who preceded her succeeded in heating up the men in the audience. I do love her choreographed dances and stage routines but no dice on the sexy, sorry.

Jennifer Aniston – This woman is the epitome of anti-sexy, while being an attractive woman and semi-accomplished actress, Jen is very unpopular amongst the boys. While having a large love affair with her female audience, I would argue that 2 out of 8 men find Jennifer Aniston appealing if that many. The stumbling, goofy act that has been her trademark since Friends, kills the little body that she has so while arguably fine by the 20%, Jen is far from sexy.

One thing that comes to mind is that a sexy woman normally knows she has it and knows how to wield it successfully. The sexiest women in history knew how to put a man to the edge even in times when women had little to no rights in anything. It is the art of seduction through mannerisms and in our modern world of over-saturation in everything; it amazes me when a woman can convince most of the world that she is sexy.

Written by Greg Dragon on Tuesday, January 5, 2010 
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