Jan 31

In the military they have a gun that they refer to as “The SAW” (The M249 Squad Automatic Weapon) and if you get in it’s path you will get mowed down by the rain of bullets that it’s able to impact on you. Similar to this big gun is a legend in the dating game that very much like a SAW will mow down anything in his path in order to score some tail. This guy will talk to every woman no matter the size color or personality, he really doesn’t care since his main goal is just to score. In college I knew a guy named Jerry who was the type of guy that deserved the moniker of SAW. Not one woman could pass Jerry’s eye sight without being hollered at. Jerry’s game always started with the same phrase: “Excuse me miss, excuse me… [Read more]

Jan 28

“Dear Dragon, I don’t want to sound conceited but why do so many men seem to either feel or be intimidated by me?” – Haseena.Z Well Haseena, what you suffer from my dear is The Curse of Being A Beautiful Woman – don’t deny your looks for fear of conceit, if you have it going on then you have it going on. Let’s break it down starting with the obvious, you are a beautiful woman so immediately from the jump you will scare away half the guys who secretly can’t get enough of you. Men are strong naturally, but when it comes to women, an inexperienced guy always fears being that dude who is shot down by the beauty in an embarrassing way. I need to figure out a way that a beautiful woman can signal to us guys that she is safe to approach… [Read more]

Jan 27

As dating and relationships have evolved, so have men and women.  You see a lot of men joining the metrosexual movement as a result of women wanting their men to show a more sensitive (feminine) side.  This is not the case for all women of course, but there are a lot out there who want a man who isn’t afraid to go get a manicure or pedicure. Some women are wanting men who are willing to depart from the neanderthal ways of the past where women were beat over the head and dragged by ponytail.  But at the same time women do not want their men to become too feminine, and they want that neanderthal to come out at times.  Depending on what your approach is you have to know the right times to be the neanderthal and the times where it will get you… [Read more]

Jan 26

Girlfriend for a time, wifey for an hour, gold-digger for 5 minutes, whatever you want to call these beautiful nymphets of the night, the last thing you want to call them is genuine. The Stripper/John relationship is a game: you came to pay, she comes to dance for your pleasure and you go home to reality. Truth be told, not all men go home to masturbate or give their wives passionate sex after the strip club. Some guys go home, business as usual to fall asleep, play video games or play editor for their ezine (sigh). I write this article for a special set of guys however who leave the Club thinking that they have found true love. Though these men aren’t necessarily suckers, tricks, or losers; they misunderstand the stripper’s intentions and go home with the girl’s fake number, Facebook/Twitter account and dream of… [Read more]

Jan 25

Everyone knows that some women fake the funk when it comes to crossing the finish line in the bedroom. What people (men) don’t seem to understand is why she would do that. It definitely doesn’t always make sense and the to fake or not to fake debate is always a heated discussion. However, make sense or not, the woman sometimes makes her decision based on the following (three) factors: 1. She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings This usually occurs during a long term relationship and feelings are put first.  Unfortunately you may not be the beast that you thought you were in that department. You simply don’t satisfy her but she loves you and doesn’t want you to know about your short coming. While I always question the judgment for this reasoning, it can be considered a twisted back handed compliment in that she… [Read more]

Jan 24

There is something extra special and exotic about office booty for a man. See in the office it barely matters what you look like or how cool you are. It’s pretty much about time spent and attention given. Let’s face it women love attention and if they aren’t receiving it at home, the office is the perfect substitute. We spend most of our time there, with others sometimes sharing things other than what we do at home with our significant others. Many times an attractive woman will start working at your job and every jack ass within radius will be at her desk vying for her attention every second of the day. This is why it is easiest to get with the beta woman or the one who is not the focus of attention. Usually it starts with light conversation that leads to partnering up… [Read more]

Jan 23

I love lips; they are the second feature on a woman’s face that catches my eye at first glance. Lips are the paint job on a brand new luxury car; it can make or break the model after the eyes. I am 100% a lip man, I am proud of it and have no qualms with putting it out there, lips pull me in like a magnet and lock me down like a ball and chain. It has taken a while for me to realize this, I had to do some soul searching to figure out my exact taste and after lining up my celebrity crushes the evidence was crystal clear: Rosario Dawson, Angelina Jolie, Meagan Good, Kelly Rowland, Gina Gershon… the list goes on. It’s not so much full lips, though full lips are automatically sexy if they have some shape to them (see… [Read more]

Jan 21

Why do I love Sword and Sorcery? It’s a question I have mulled over inside my mind for some time as an adult. I am a black man yet I have read every single one of Terry Brooks’ Sword of Shannara series (over 12 books), I am a huge fan of The Lord of The Rings books, and I grew up reading The Savage Sword of Conan The Barbarian as a child. In my teenage years I was the token black kid rolling a 20-sided die on the table top of a Dungeons and Dragons adventure, even playing DM to a set of adventures in the Advanced Dungeons and Dragons realm. Sword and Sorcery is fun, it depicts larger than life heroes overcoming the harshest of odds. In the table-top games you made up your own identity and lived through your character whether it be… [Read more]