It should be common knowledge that women tend to hate on each other more than anyone else on the planet. Just go out on a date with a wife/girlfriend/friend and observe the comments she makes (or the looks she gives) to other women, if you are clueless about this.
Well I was curious about whatever happened to some of the musical groups of my past and girl band SWV was up on my list today. After doing some sleuthing I found out that one is married, one likes girls, and one is an author! When I saw this, I immediately looked up the book Player HateHER by Tamara Antrice Johnson (TAJ) and Katrina R. Chambers. Here is an excerpt:
“For instance, you’re having a get-together at your house and you realize you still need a few extra odds and ends from the grocery store. You think to yourself let me hurry and get there before the store closes. You’re at the grocery store wearing a t-shirt, sweatpants, and a baseball cap. You thought it didn’t matter how you looked because you were just making a quick run to the store. While you’re in the produce aisle, you notice a woman dressed like a million bucks. She was in her night club best with her “all my breasts are revealed” leopard print tank top, skin tight black Capri pants, six inch leopard print mules to match, and a toe ring for every toe (except the big ones). Immediately you think to yourself; “It’s only the grocery store, not dinner and a movie.” Low and behold, woman, you are player hatin’.”
- from www.playerhateher.com
This has to be one of the most hilarious things to write about! I am looking forward to buying this masterpiece and adding it to my library since I sooo subscribe to the notion of the Player HateHER. The site describes the book as such: “Player hateHER shows women why they hate on one another, and, most important, how they can stop! A much-needed lesson in respecting one another and respecting yourself.”
Ladies, Click Here and buy that book now! Stop hating on each other and start loving on each other… and make sure you record it! Just kidding.




