I would like you all to join me in an anti-hater movement. To clarify, let me explain what I mean by “hater” because this word gets used so much it is easy to ignore the true meaning of it.

Haters are negative people, they are the ones who tell you not to do something that could potentially help your career, they are the ones who you have to constantly say “I told you so” and they are the ones who find the darkest possibility in any situation. These people endlessly flame on message boards and comments (anonymously) and are an ongoing topic on notable news sites on the status of the internet.  Haters will soon cause the internet to be policed, if you want an example just go to YouTube.com and read the comments on any video. It’s a cultural phenomenon.

So why do people do it? Well it’s easy to be a sour puss looking for pity, it’s hard to find a way out of your problems or to have a bright outlook. If you want a challenge, try staying positive and see why most people carry on like this. It’s not cute, it’s not funny it’s pathetic and way too popular a trait in our culture. It is also intoxicating, this is due to other haters encouraging the hate and joining in with their own negative spin on things. I bet I’m preaching to the choir though aren’t I?

From today moving on I will be systematically eliminating haters out of my life, they taint my aura and dampen my perspective. I urge you to do the same, just tune them out and stop talking to them, it’s a great big world, there are better friends out there. Okay that may be a bit extreme lol but we all need to stop encouraging it. When a hater says something stupidly negative about something you are trying to do, just stare at them and keep on moving as if they just said the dumbest thing in the world to you. It works wonders.

Written by Greg Dragon on Wednesday, November 5, 2008 

Filed under Self Improvement
Tagged with friends, haters, jealousy, the internet