Sometimes a man can be totally oblivious to the obvious disrespect that the love of his life is displaying. It is the reason why articles such as this one are needed. Maybe writing this will convince at least one of you confused guys–who was never schooled on the game–will realize that the crap you are dealing with is not cool.
If she is slighting you, let her know or cut that bird off… women outnumber us in the world so there’s 2 more like her out there waiting to treat you right. Gain some self respect (they will try to fool you by calling this cockiness or arrogance), if you don’t budge she will have to choose and more often than none she will play ball.
Self respect guys, self respect… I don’t care how fine a girl is, when you hit 30+ you should know that beauty only goes so far… if she’s fine and disrespectful then you are a fool for being with her, that’s it.
1. Wearing her ex’s jewelry
If your girl has a nice ring or necklace that glitters ever so brightly and she never takes it off you may want to get some history out of her. Girls are quick to get pissed when we keep a trinket but all the while wearing an engagement ring or otherwise to hold unto from the guy who cheated on her and dumped her before your rebounded ass.
How can you respect yourself, making love to your girl and some dudes name is tattooed on her back… she holds your hand in line affectionately with some man’s ring on her finger. Check yourself, check her and look into it. It happens a lot, girls got jokes.
2. The hang-arounder
You know this guy… he hangs out with your girl’s parents. She gives you vague explanations as to who he is exactly but he gives you odd looks when you see him. Sometimes you go out to a movie and he comes along, because he is her friend… it happens a lot.
Check her my dude… that guy right there, he will marry her and leave you looking like a dumb ass. The hang-arounder is usually a childhood boyfriend who doesn’t have anything else going on so he’s patient.
- When you piss your girl off he’s in those panties.
- When you are trying to be a big pimp and flirt with other girls, he’s in those panties.
- When you finally break up with her, guess what? He’s in those panties.
Mark my words, this guy is worst than the dick in a glass jar dudes, he knows the game and he thinks your girl is worth the wait.
3. Going through your cell phone
How far along in a relationship have you shown so much weakness that she thinks that this is cool? One way to avoid it, is to check her hard the first time it happens. Second time you catch her, cut her off and move on with your life, it’s not cool.
Editor’s Note: Do not go through my email, and leave the cell phone alone. If you think I’m doing dirt, have the ovaries to confront me, stop trying to be Olivia Benson.
4. Flirting with a guy on Social Media
If she’s at this point then you’re done. Seriously, wrap it up dude. If you are married to her and she’s doing this then something is very wrong bro. That guy is a plane ticket away from boning your girl. I am being dead serious, if she is doing it, she will f— that guy. You need to cancel that ticket.
5. Make you spend Vacation time to see her then ignores you
Is it rocket science that if a man is giving you his time, so much so that he takes a vacation to see you… that he is your girlfriend? Come on ladies do not play with my intelligence here, you know what it is, you just like your dick in the glass jar to know where he stands right? It happened to me once, I drove home 300+ miles the same night. The royal ass had to be kissed clean before I even talked to her again… disrespect me like that.
6. Keeping you on the sidelines (dick in the glass jar syndrome)
Okay there are only a few situations where us guys have girls as friends. Bear with me because this is a huge item that women have a hard time grasping. Here it is in black and white. IF A DUDE APPROACHES YOU IN ANYWAY OUTSIDE OF WORK, SCHOOL OR FAMILY HE WANTS YOU.
Okay let me explain now. A lot of guys get into the friend zone and are unhappy there. They are there because their game was weak, the girl feigned marginal interest and now the sucker hangs around hoping one day he will get some pity booty out of the deal.
I have seen it a million times, the friend comes over (and she’s female) and she gives me the time of day because she likes me… and then you are mad at me because you have paper handcuffs on her. Don’t play yourself, you will get pity booty in times of loss and rebound situations… if its worth it to you to be this woman’s male girlfriend, go right ahead.
7. Strippers don’t love you
I thought this would be common knowledge but maybe I am just a bit more rational that your average horny male. The girls in there are entertaining you… it’s like thinking a bartender is cute and that she likes you just because she knows how to work a flirt for tips. Come on fellas, you have to do better than this.
Now I’m not saying this is 100%, I’m sure there’s some Captain Save-a-Ho’s out there who managed to rescue Julia Roberts from “The Life” but I doubt it was anything less than him looking good, having some nose candy for her habit and a whole mouth full of game to snap her up into his web of tricks. Speaking of tricks… you know what you’re doing right? I mean, she squeezed a few hundred out of you and now you think she loves you? Tighten up guys.
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Grow your self-respect fellas. If you are insecure or weak… I can’t help you, you will lose her anyway… a weak man isn’t sexy, once she sucks you dry she will drop you like a bad habit in lieu of a dude who probably follows the code… not necessarily one of these grown men acting like teenage thugs, but a man who is really a man. Go watch a Humphrey Bogart movie and get your manhood back. Thanks for reading.Check out The Dragon's Lexicon.