Jul 03

disrespectful woman

Sometimes a man can be totally oblivious to the obvious disrespect that the love of his life is displaying. It is the reason why articles such as this one are needed. Maybe writing this will convince at least one of you confused guys–who was never schooled on the game–will realize that the crap you are dealing with is not cool.

If she is slighting you, let her know or cut that bird off… women outnumber us in the world so there’s 2 more like her out there waiting to treat you right. Gain some self respect (they will try to fool you by calling this cockiness or arrogance), if you don’t budge she will have to choose and more often than none she will play ball.

Self respect guys, self respect… I don’t care how fine a girl is, when you hit 30+ you should know that beauty only goes so far… if she’s fine and disrespectful then you are a fool for being with her, that’s it.

1. Wearing her ex’s jewelry

If your girl has a nice ring or necklace that glitters ever so brightly and she never takes it off you may want to get some history out of her. Girls are quick to get pissed when we keep a trinket but all the while wearing an engagement ring or otherwise to hold unto from the guy who cheated on her and dumped her before your rebounded ass.

How can you respect yourself, making love to your girl and some dudes name is tattooed on her back… she holds your hand in line affectionately with some man’s ring on her finger. Check yourself, check her and look into it. It happens a lot, girls got jokes.

2. The hang-arounder

You know this guy… he hangs out with your girl’s parents. She gives you vague explanations as to who he is exactly but he gives you odd looks when you see him. Sometimes you go out to a movie and he comes along, because he is her friend… it happens a lot.

Check her my dude… that guy right there, he will marry her and leave you looking like a dumb ass. The hang-arounder is usually a childhood boyfriend who doesn’t have anything else going on so he’s patient.

  • When you piss your girl off he’s in those panties.
  • When you are trying to be a big pimp and flirt with other girls, he’s in those panties.
  • When you finally break up with her, guess what? He’s in those panties.

Mark my words, this guy is worst than the dick in a glass jar dudes, he knows the game and he thinks your girl is worth the wait.

3. Going through your cell phone

How far along in a relationship have you shown so much weakness that she thinks that this is cool? One way to avoid it, is to check her hard the first time it happens. Second time you catch her, cut her off and move on with your life, it’s not cool.

Editor’s Note: Do not go through my email, and leave the cell phone alone. If you think I’m doing dirt, have the ovaries to confront me, stop trying to be Olivia Benson.

4. Flirting with a guy on Social Media

If she’s at this point then you’re done. Seriously, wrap it up dude. If you are married to her and she’s doing this then something is very wrong bro. That guy is a plane ticket away from boning your girl. I am being dead serious, if she is doing it, she will f— that guy. You need to cancel that ticket.

5. Make you spend Vacation time to see her then ignores you

Is it rocket science that if a man is giving you his time, so much so that he takes a vacation to see you… that he is your girlfriend? Come on ladies do not play with my intelligence here, you know what it is, you just like your dick in the glass jar to know where he stands right? It happened to me once, I drove home 300+ miles the same night. The royal ass had to be kissed clean before I even talked to her again… disrespect me like that.

6. Keeping you on the sidelines (dick in the glass jar syndrome)

Okay there are only a few situations where us guys have girls as friends. Bear with me because this is a huge item that women have a hard time grasping. Here it is in black and white. IF A DUDE APPROACHES YOU IN ANYWAY OUTSIDE OF WORK, SCHOOL OR FAMILY HE WANTS YOU.

Okay let me explain now. A lot of guys get into the friend zone and are unhappy there. They are there because their game was weak, the girl feigned marginal interest and now the sucker hangs around hoping one day he will get some pity booty out of the deal.

I have seen it a million times, the friend comes over (and she’s female) and she gives me the time of day because she likes me… and then you are mad at me because you have paper handcuffs on her. Don’t play yourself, you will get pity booty in times of loss and rebound situations… if its worth it to you to be this woman’s male girlfriend, go right ahead.

7. Strippers don’t love you

I thought this would be common knowledge but maybe I am just a bit more rational that your average horny male. The girls in there are entertaining you… it’s like thinking a bartender is cute and that she likes you just because she knows how to work a flirt for tips. Come on fellas, you have to do better than this.

Now I’m not saying this is 100%, I’m sure there’s some Captain Save-a-Ho’s out there who managed to rescue Julia Roberts from “The Life” but I doubt it was anything less than him looking good, having some nose candy for her habit and a whole mouth full of game to snap her up into his web of tricks. Speaking of tricks… you know what you’re doing right? I mean, she squeezed a few hundred out of you and now you think she loves you? Tighten up guys.

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Grow your self-respect fellas. If you are insecure or weak… I can’t help you, you will lose her anyway… a weak man isn’t sexy, once she sucks you dry she will drop you like a bad habit in lieu of a dude who probably follows the code… not necessarily one of these grown men acting like teenage thugs, but a man who is really a man. Go watch a Humphrey Bogart movie and get your manhood back. Thanks for reading.

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  • Bre

    lol so true, women are shady, but not all women.

  • Rocksteady

    Dude, your wisdom is appreciated! With this knowledge, hopefully most of the guys out here will avoid the disrespectful/foul dame! lol Big ups!

  • Sol

    A book huh… ok… just one thing.. you better let me read that thing before its published lol cause now im worried lol :P

  • Trevor

    Hah yeah we’ve discussed some of these situations as they’ve happened. It’s funny, you start switching from “friend” mode to “self-respect” mode, they suddenly don’t want to see you or they snap in line. Either way, it’s a win.

  • Alina

    What is on the cell phone that you have to hide? If she goes through your phone why break it off? Its like seeing who called on the caller ID or what came in the mail. Who the hell hides that crap? Only someone who has something to hide.

    If you are in a relationship then you should be an open book. And so should she. My cell phone is never locked. If the bf wants to see in it then he has every right to go for it and I don’t care. Just like if he gets the mail.

    On the other hand, he thinks it is his privacy to lock his phone. Then I found out he was texting his ex about us, orgasms and other shit and getting porno pics from friends. I am about to leave him because he won’t leave the stupid secrets behind.

    • Renee

      I disagree and I’m a woman. Just because two people are in a relationship, it doesn’t mean that your right to privacy has to go through the window. I don’t check his phone and he doesn’t check mine. What is the point? I will never understand grown people treating each other like little children. And if you have to check your partner’s phone? The relationship already has problems.

  • Alina

    Oh, and I did ask before I snooped and he lied through his teeth!

    • http://halloftheblackdragon.com Greg Dragon

      Alina my dear, your man sounds like a true loser if he is giving an ex play-by-play of your relationship. You deserve better, we here at the Hall do not back up that type of activity from a man. It sounds like he needs a lesson in “The Code of Man”.

  • http://www.theshootingrange.net The Marksman

    Contrary to what you might think EVERYONE has something to hide, people have things in their lives they do not want everyone to know. You break it off if she goes through your cell phone because that shows there is no trust in the relationship, which is one of the foundations it should be built on. It also shows a woman does not have enough confidence in herself to not care about such trivial high school things, we are all adults and gong through cell phones, counting condoms, and listening to peoples voice messages are all childish things. Where will it end, you want a copy of his bank statements and documentation of what he ate at a restaurant without you to make sure he was alone?

    Just because your cell phone is an open book that is your choice, there are things I talk to my friends about that I do not want my girlfriend privy to. But in your case it sounds like you were with the wrong man and ignored the warning signs that I am sure were there. Also he played you, the reason he let you look at the phone is so you can dump him and he won’t feel like an ass for dumping you. It’s a classic trick that people do, so the person can feel good about themselves rather than getting dumped. Also every guy looks at porn, if he wasn’t that would be the strange thing lol.

    What tells me the most about this is simple, you said that you are “About” to leave him. If you are so adamant on your point why isn’t he dumped all ready? You need to be with a person who you do not have to worry about those things with, if you feel like something is going on where you need to investigate the persons personal belongings then find someone else.

  • http://www.datingwomensex.com Gregory B

    Dude, everything you say is on point. We all been through getting disrespected by a woman. They feel its there right to do this stuff. Your article is so powerful that I have linked it to my site.

  • MAN

    There one thing i don’t tolerate when dating a women. If woman tells you she keeps in touch with her former boyfriends, you are in trouble dude. This chick is removed from reality and get rid of her quickly. Heck I dump chick like this the first time she mentions it.

  • MAN

    Another thing — men and women can’t be friends! When a women sings the word “FRIEND” it means you stand no chance with me. A women that is interested or wants you romantically never uses this word.

  • duke

    L o L I had one for 20 years took her to dinner always i made good money the last two years i have been unemployed her paycheck always went in the bank in the last two years she hasn’t taken me to dinner once. I sent her down the road

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  • aaaa

    Since I’m not a guy, I dont know what it’s like to deal with dating women. However, I can tell you that dating men is no walk in the park. I know you’re just posting this to vent, but I have to vent too- i just find it insane when I come across men that actually think they’re the ones that have a harder time of it. So here’s your list.

    There are men that:

    1-lie and make false promises
    2- expect women to cater to them
    3-criticize women that are not attractive
    4-criticize their own girlfriends for not being attractive, gaining weight, or not being up to their idealistic standards
    5-act angry and aggressive when politely rejected by a woman
    6-act entitled to women in general
    7-act superior about their intelligence (there are a lot of men out there that really believe themselves to be superior to women, I’m not making this up)
    8-refuse to listen to women’s opinions or give them any consideration
    9-take credit for the work or opinions of women when convenient
    10-push their girlfriends/wives to do sexual acts they see in porn
    11-look down on a woman’s feelings as “illogical” or “crazy”, while at the same time refusing to take any responsibility for being rash, tempermental, and ironically, illogical and crazy.

    and this isn’t doesn’t even begin to cover the truly evil things that men do to women, including
    1-verbal abuse
    2-consistent disrespect
    3-abandoning women with children and/or refusing to pay child support
    5-physical abuse
    5-rape
    6-abuse of young women or small children
    7-more psychopathic forms of abuse

    Thankfully I have not had experience with every item on this list, but I have unfortunately had experience with quite a few of them. And to those of you that say this is an “extreme list” and most guys are not like that – actually, a lot of guys are like that. approximately half of the women I know have been hit or abused at some point in time. And then the other half of the time – we just have to deal with the more minor crap that we all have to deal with.

    • JFB1224

      ^ #2, 5, 6, and 11. .

    • vonhugo

      Your as lesbian.. …….. . rite?

  • elin

    the men and women can’t be friends is a complete bullshit. i’ve seen too many examples of men and women as friends to know better. what is true is that it isn’t common but sure as the sky is blue, these friendships exists. a better point to make is that if there is a dude who looks like a threat, then a man has every right to scope it out to see if it is a threat and then talk with his lady about it. don’t be insecure cause that’s a quick way to lock yourself out of your ladies panties for good.

    and the cell checking? my ex lied to me once after i suspected something and asked him about it i checked his cell and i was on point.

  • dragao

    A woman will only disrespect you if you allow her to, because you are weak and needy she can use you to wipe her ass. The moment u start radiating fear of losing ‘a pretty face’ and start asking her approval and giving her control u are fvcked! She’ll svck another dick, bleed u dry and leave you when you find out. Ask her : where u got yo bling?, oodafux dat skeezy guy (on the interwebs)? If your in the dickjar, touch her more fire her up with words and powerdrill dat azz.
    Get yourself together little poofter, think like a shark, theres plenty fish in the sea.
    Turn off your TV.. those fags are scamming you cause they fear real men.

    • Fawad

      Fabulous! you are the man. And that’s how we should treat women. Although, I just started with my girl recently made mistakes but after reading a couple of things, now starting to think like that. Although, these things were natural in me but still needed some reassurance and I was confused. if it is right or not but now I know we need to save women from themselves and treat them and ourselves right.

      • DL

        “Fabulous”

        Nough said :)

        LOL!

  • dragao

    i want to add to my reply that a real man pays close attention to aaaa’s list of things NOT to do.
    (comment 13)

  • A Woman

    Each person is 100% responsible for whatever happens in any relationship. If someone is consistently disrespecting you, won’t make an attempt at self-awareness or listen to your feelings (man or woman), and you stay, YOU are responsible for making that choice.

    My ex-husband of 20 years, and I have a great relationship. We don’t hang out all the time but we stay in contact. I also wear my wedding band around my neck because I respect that marriage and it is a reminder of my part in ending that relationship. SELF-AWARENESS. I was not all perfect and my ex was not the only “bad-guy”.

    My boyfriend was told from the beginning that my relationship with my ex will not cease because of this new relationship, and they have both found a way to accept each others presence in my life.

    The problem I’m experiencing with my boyfriend is that he has an issue with respecting women in general. He can be condescending, but I don’t put up with it and he is learning to listen and will have to change his view if he wants to be with this woman. He shows disrespect for his female bosses, his ex-wife and his daughter. Whenever he does that, it shows me what he thinks of his mother. Luckily, I see he is capable of self-awareness. It just takes time.

    All human beings deserve a basic respect as a place to start. That should not have to be earned.

    On being an open book in a relationship… Any relationship “expert” will tell you that the first thing a couple should do when they decide to be in a committed relationship is to exchange passwords to emails, phones, and social networks. What an awesome offering to show commitment! If you want to stay together, be open. If you want your relationship to eventually come to an end, be secretive.

    When my best friend tells me a secret, the first person I tell is my partner. I keep nothing from him. HE is my true best friend. I see anyone who asks me to keep a secret from my committed partner as disrespecting my relationship.

    The average person isn’t evil. They’re just insecure.

    • Lar0

      Your boyfriend is a chump if he marries you.

  • Single mom

    sigh… when did it all get so complicated? Life definitely has too many relationships that end badly. What if we considered that each both deserved one another’s respect. That both need love and kindness, that both will make mistakes… but that both need each other and in the end that is what matters?

    Thank you for your article… but men don’t forget, not every woman is out to make a fool out of you.

    • Terry

      sounds good in theory, but the reality is 99% of the time it’s the women that complicate the relationships. when theyre young they fuck hot guys, lie to and use marriage-material guys, and when they get older/life happens to them, then they want to say “hey, we all make mistakes and need to respect each other”. it’s like an alcoholic; they drink themselves into oblivion, until something bad happens, then they’re forced to stop completely – not because they want to, but because their lifestyle no longer allows it

      • STFU

        Speaking from experience?

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001084021328 Mike Correll

    Men and women can be friends guys just watch yourselves because she smiles in a certan way or little perks thats what makes you fall for them and the women who do this for you to fall for are users and theres a lot of users out there i had one i helped get her kids back gave her money for rent, food, clothes, exc and then when i thought we were gonna be more than friends BOOM she had a new guy in her life and told me to go away she didn’t need me anymore i have found my one now she is great and i hope the same for all the other good guys out there but remember when you find a god one its respect respect and more respect thats the key

  • JFB1224

    Respect is a two-way street, and is the most important foundation of a relationship. If you are male or female and have a partner who consistently does any of the above, it’s time to rethink things.

  • Liz

    I was raised by a really loving father, lots of lovely brothers but sadly with a mum who was mentally ill, so I have grown up with a really positive view of men but a not so good view of women; even though I am a woman myself, does that make any sense?

    I have been fortunate to come across some truly lovely, gentle and kind people in life – of both genders. (I don’t mean to imply that I am bi sexual here, just that I’ve met and worked with some genuinely nice people!)

    By all means, be cautious and sensible. It is obvious that if you hang out with strippers, or people who are in professions that involve “using” people for money, guess what? – they are likely to end up using you as well!

    My number one tip is to take the time to really listen carefully to what a person says, because that usually reveals what they are about.

    Keep your wits about you, but at the same time, don’t be overly paranoid. Most women just want to be loved by someone who is gentle and kind and who doesn’t mind putting up with their flaws…

  • Mike

    If she doesn’t pay the cell phone bill then she don’t need to check it . Woman would say well what do u have to hide and it’s nothing more than a sign of insecurity . If u know u have a faithful man then u wouldn’t be worried . Some woman like to play games and make excuses , gaining weight, stressing out why they need to see ur phone which is a bunch of BS

  • ew fedoras

    oh god you said friendzone, the friendzone is more like the “denied entitlement zone”

    since when did being nice to a girl ever entitle a guy to some pussy? being nice is something you should be doing anyway, no matter who it is.

    • STFU

      Ok you gay slave, be her little boy-toy.

  • h

    So friend-zoning is disrespecting guys? And every man who contacts me out of work school or family wants me? I highly doubt it

  • http://www.tenawesomeyears.blogspot.com/ TenAwesomeYears

    Wearing her ex’ jewellery? Bitch, please. I use the fountain pen I got from my ex-ex-ex, because it’s a damn good Mont Blanc, I’m still using perfume I got from my ex-ex because it’s the only thing he did correctly – chose the perfume. I have jewellery from my ex and I’m gonna wear it, because it’s a pretty jewellery. If you’re dating a quality woman, you won’t be the first guy in her life, she has the right to have her past, deal with it. With this attitude you won’t be the last one either. Nothing worse than a guy who lacks self-confidence and gets insecure and jealous for any stupid reason. The best way to make her break up with you.

    • eyes wide open

      Really? Bitch Please. Lets place the shoe on the other foot . Guys still wears clothes, jewellery or keeps anything given to them by their ex and see how most girlfriends re act. What a load of self righteous bullshit.Females are just as effed up and as insecure as males, only with alot more excuses for their actions .

      • http://www.tenawesomeyears.blogspot.com/ TenAwesomeYears

        Well, maybe next time try datng adults, because sorry, I’m not responsible for your sad love life, full of effed up women. I don’t mind my men meeting their female friends or having souvenirs from their past /as long as it’s not HIV/. But yeah, you need to grow up for this, so there’s a long way to go for you.

      • eyes wide open

        Oh . I am going to have to ask you to please point out to me ,where in my comments did i state that this was about me and or you?. If you could read, you would have simply seen that like you, i also have an opinions but unlike you i do not believe that my opinions are above rebuttal from any body else .I also find it amusing that you would suggest that i have to grow up when yet all your comments to me are nothing but childish , personal attacks with no basis to support any of it, the rantings of an incoherent child . But that is okay because i am a grown man with three grown up children and i recognise this sort of behaviour as i have had to deal with it many times in the past when my own children were young and childish.I also find it amusing that you would suggest that i have a sad love life ,full of effed up women .Once again ,not sure where you pulled that one out of , but i could take a guess seeing as that is where most of your comments have been coming from . .And if i ever need relationship advise , i will definitely not be seeking it from someone who has had more exes in their past then i have had hot dinners.So please little girl , do yourself a favor and go and seek parental advise before you try and argue with an adult.

      • http://www.tenawesomeyears.blogspot.com/ TenAwesomeYears

        Woo-hoo, butthurt detected. So, basically having kids proves that you got laid, not that you’re a grown-up. And again, you are the one whining about how ALL THE WOMEN have so many excuses about their behaviour, and apparently knowing “most girlfrends” personally. I hope that you have valid sociological research to back up your strong thesis.

      • ChargerGrant

        You sound like a trashy whore…

      • http://www.tenawesomeyears.blogspot.com/ TenAwesomeYears

        Like your mom?

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  • Alex M

    Honestly if you have an annoying woman in your life then the only thing I suggests you do is cheat on her dumb ass… Women are fucking annoying by nature and the best way to put them in their place is to fuck around on them. IDGAF what a females opinion is on this subject because in my case I’ve given this silly hoe everything! My money, my military benefits squandered and I even have a big dick! So you would think my relationship would be fine being monogamous; but in reality all she does is complain about my dick being to big and going to deep in her stomach in certain positions and basically treat me as if I’m her roommate. In fact the ONLY time she really goes out of her way to be perfect for me is when I’m fucking another chic on the side. It’s fucking MADNESS! I don’t even care if she cheated cuz she knows I’d leave the second I found out and there is no way another guy would devote his life to her the way I do. I mean yea, we do fuck a lot and I even pee on her face and fuck her in the ass. I love her a lot. It’s just she is constantly doing things I repeatedly explain to her that I don’t want. I told her to make me a grilled cheese sandwich this morning and this fool knows I like it made with BUTTER, not fucking OIL. She KNOWS what I want yet she won’t do it. I’ve fucked 100s of sluts and prostitutes and she seems to respond best when I’m involved with someone else. Sometimes I wish she was seeing someone herself, but no one wants this idiot. Yes she could get laid and used for sex, but what woman couldn’t! But can any women find a man to spend forever with her; be way a man and women are supposed to be? NO! That’s basically why I cheat… She is annoying as fuck.

  • Rachel Ramage

    Wow! Well first off, what fucking garbage! No wonder you and Alex M are shit talking women bc you guys probably had 1 bad experience that broke your hearts and now you guys are bitter and embarrassed that you got hurt. Well keep shit talking cuz all that’s going to get you is more of the bitches you are talking about who will continue to do nothing but use you and play you bc if you really treat a faithful, genuine woman the way you say to, she won’t stick around you long and truth be told you’ll die alone still bitter and still talking shit. And that attitude, that “I’m a playa” bullshit attitude that you seem to be mistakenly calling “being a man” if you really think that’s true then YOU need some schooling! Are you guys really that fucking stupid that you think you’re going to find that quality woman you say that you want, by acting like that? And the cell phone checking is stupid yea maybe she shouldn’t be going thru your shit but if you got nothing to hide and aren’t doing nothing wrong then what’s the big deal? You dudes freak bc you’re hitting up other bitches then blaming us cuz you know you’re in the wrong. So don’t go crying about cheating bitches when you’re a cheating Bitch yourself! So quit your fucking crying, grow the fuck up, learn how to treat women with some decency. Being chivalrous, maintaining honesty, and showing her a little respect, will get you alot further then your bullshit pointers! God I hope guys really aren’t dumb enough to listen to you. Oh and Alex M, you say “women are fucking annoying by nature. ..” let me tell you simply why you think that is. …… bc we women tend to try speaking to you men as if you can understand and carry on an intelligent and in depth conversation like we do with other women, completely forgetting that mentally we are more evolved and you “men” (as you call yourself) are barely a few steps above cavemen. So Alex M that annoying sound you here are called words. … thoughts. … feelings….. emotions. …. Things You guys won’t really get the concept of for a few million more years or so.

    • http://halloftheblackdragon.com/ Greg Dragon

      “we women tend to try speaking to you men as if you can understand and carry on an intelligent and in depth conversation like we do with other women, completely forgetting that mentally we are more evolved and you ‘men’ (as you call yourself) are barely a few steps above cavemen.”

      As I read, I was waiting for your honest feelings about men to come out and there it is. Here’s the thing, women that don’t do the things in this article do not get upset enough to post about it. I was never hurt, I am not bitter (happily in a relationship with a good woman) but I’m very honest. Men should not stay with women that do the things listed above. Thanks for reading.

      • Rachel Ramage

        Yet you men do the same exact thing to us and find it ok? Yea ok

      • ChargerGrant

        …and not hook up with this lunatic…

    • Alex M

      You’re out of your fat mind if you believe women are more “evolved” than men. Period.

      • Email me

        Agree, developed physically faster than men but illumination of the mind is still a long way off. Unfortunately unless she has hit the books and done the time chances are she has as much brains as a stripper. Good thing I love strippers.

      • email me

        No sex and no respect means no interest and so its time to cheat. Of course everything must be consential and allow for choice. But too often women avoid conflict and string people along. Its so much easier to just see the hints and go and get some fresh action. Sorry ladies feminism is equal rights but not a right to sabotage peoples lives because your too weak to step up to the plate. Just saying

      • Michelle Kirkwood

        You wish, troll.

    • ChargerGrant

      That was hilarious. What an unadulterated nutjob and such a happy happy girl. Thanks for the laugh Rach!

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  • Shade

    We’ll this article is more of a rant also–but ranting isn’t all bad. But I can say; when a woman points out things a man does wrong–eventually–he’ll comply to fix it. Bury his pride and step up and realize. But as soon as you point out fucked up things women do it’s like they can’t do no wrong. And they try to justify it by even not accepting responsibility for it all.

    One thing also is how they’ll idolize celebrity men. Like, heavily compliment them. I’ve seen it myself. Like, how would you like it if I constantly raved about how a certain porn star can fuck like this and that?

    When I am first dating a woman, I tell her straight up: don’t look through my phone. Because you’ll see things you probably won’t like. Some girls will be hard-headed and do it anyways. But it’s not like I didn’t warn you.

    When a woman says I don’t get along with females I only have male friends; we’ll guess what? Prepare to MAKE some female friends. Ain’t no way in hell am I going to let you keep making guy friends. It’s not okay for men to generalize women, but women can generalize whatever they want because they just can. So why group all women in one category? That’s like me saying, I don’t get along with guys so I just have a lot of girl friends. What type of shit is that???

    Bottom line is you cannot make sense of the stuff women do. I try not to analyze it. It gives you headaches.

    Yes men do some dirty stuff in relationships I’ll fully admit. But women do some audacious things. And many men say, women cannot admit when they are wrong. It’s like a cardinal sin to do so. They have to be right. And if they know some how they ARE wrong, they’ll find a way to make it your fault and STILL not apologize! It’s just funny. Hilarious.

    When a man cheats or fucks up, and he knows it, and wants his GF back really bad, what is often seen as done? Guys will be on their knees with flowers and shit. Serenading and whatnot. When have you ever known or seen a girl do such a thing? On the contrary to what most believe, women have bigger egos than men. Don’t believe it? Why don’t you think most “only have male friends”?

    See men do have huge ass egos. In sports and whatnot. But in the end, we’ll bury that shit and grab some beers or something . Not women. They have to hold a grudge and try to fuck up your life somehow.

    I actually recently got into a skirmish with a girl I know about a week ago. She went on about how these deadbeat dads need to step up and start acting like men. How these guys need to stop knocking women up and leaving. I said she is right. She actually is.

    I chimed in saying it is time that women start taking responsibility for the guys they choose and their willingness to have unprotected sex. She went off the rocker th more right I became.
    I said, no guys are forcing you to have sex. If a guy cannot wait, then he isn’t for you, right? So what you are on contraceptives, when you are having sex without a condom you are basically saying to that guy: I trust you with my future. I know you are such a great guy you’ll stick with me and the kid. But explaining this just didn’t register in her mind. She kept making other ways around it.

  • LoveScar

    Look, yes, in this world you do get fucked-up men and women. But there is a much greater percentage of fucked-up women than there are fucked-up men, and I’m speaking from experience. Rachel, yes, you do have valid points, I will definitely give you that. But you can trust me when I say there are a lot more women than men who are doing wrong. What do I base it on? I base it on personal experience. I am the type of man who prides myself on carrying the woman in my life on my hands, she is my queen, and she deserves ONLY the BEST, at ALL Times. Rachel, you know what I got for that thus far? The only thing that has brought me was a LOT of heartache, pain and suffering. I started dating when I was about 16 years old. I am 35 now, and I am still single. I have been engaged twice, but I haven’t been that fortunate to be able to get married, and also share my life and my all with ONE Special Woman, because so far, I have giving the BEST of myself and of what the world can give the woman in my life, but every time I get my heart ripped through my ass. Shade, what you said here below, I can vouch for it being the truth. But again it is not all women. But GOOD women are hard to find. Then Woman ask where all the GOOD Men are? Why ask? When you had one, HE WASN’T GOOD ENOUGH. WONDERFUL, WASN’T WONDERFUL ENOUGH. Also, History and Life in general proves one point. Any person only gets mad and defensive about something when he or she knows it is the truth but they DO NOT WANT TO ADMIT IT. So Rachel, why do you get upset? I mean, I have made mistakes in the past, all of us have. I don’t get upset about the truth. I’d rather learn from the truth and work at making myself a better person, because it will be a FUCKING COLD DAY IN HELL, when I drop my values and standards just to get back at the female race, cause you never compromise on who you are as a person. But that is just my view, and something I live by, and it is for each of us to decide who we want to become and what we want to live by. And always remember, “LIVING IN DENIAL IS LIVING A LIE”. May everyone here have a great day forward.

  • commentator

    In the first paragraph, you make reference to 2 more out there to every one which is disrespectful. Don’t be so naive, there is a thing called influence (a term I call by a different reference) which is undeniable, which has sparked and caused all our social problems today, so as the former group Petra sings, “Wise up, and Rise up.”

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