Apr 26

The title was taken from this video, where rapper Joe Budden is discussing the habits of the attractive women that he has dealt with and known throughout his career. He argues for the average, hard-working guys with assets that fail at getting these girls because they (the women) will only deal with men of fame. The famous men treat these girls like crap, swap em off to their buddies, laugh at them, make rhymes about running through them and they still come back for more. The women that he refers to are so star-struck and superficial that a man who has the same amount of money and no title is worthless in comparison to a high spending athlete who doesn’t even spend a dime on her.

I have this conversation on the daily with 2 of my partners in crime concerning women, specifically attractive black women and the bi-polar standards that they convey to the world. All 3 of us guys are “successful” within our own right, I represent the entrepreneur/hustler, Jamal is a Director of technology in a major company and Jo is a high level boss in his company and father of the year. We all read blogs heavily, and Jamal and I have a history of actively hunting and landing women through the jungles of the Night Club, College campus and/or mundane hot spots. Jamal is still looking.

Stop Chasing Star-Struck Dime Pieces!

The topic at hand always deals with these type of chicks, the worthless dream chasers who willingly get whored out by superstars only to lament it in their 30s when guys like us are now dateable. The reality has made us bitter but not necessarily angry. In other words we lack empathy for women like this, they are the bottom of the barrel and when tales of misfortune comes from a “groupies” mouth, it is almost comedic. The commentary on the Joe Budden video had some good gems in terms of avoiding these women and the wasted time in trying to court them. Gems like:

“Y’all fucking with the wrong broads that’s all. I work the front door at major DC nightclubs and I used to run into these broads all the time. Y’all gotta find women in like Target for real.” – TDH85

Editors Note: Ahhh D.C. the notorious chicken head heaven… not surprised by this comment.

“you guys are truly messing with the wrong ones. stop going for the big booty long hair video girls…” – DaSc88

“I bet the girl Gucci pushed out the moving car is messing with reg dudes now lmao” – YoungGazaGirl876

Are you seeing the pattern? These birds tend to try their hardest to look like Melyssa Ford, Tiara Harris, or any other video vixen type – basically abnormally narrow waist, huge ass and long, flowing hair. Chasing these women for men like myself is stupid, it leads to disaster mostly or an exhausted bank account. Trust me the sex is never worth it, ask my man Karisma who loves these ratchets and he will tell you that hygiene isn’t their strong point (that’s another article).

So if you want a happy dating life, don’t shoot high – sure headshots (dime pieces) are guaranteed props from friends and a boost to your ego, but you need to shoot for the chest. You need to develop an eye for hidden talent, dimes that dress down and underplay their dime status. You need to be able to envision what the nerdy girl grocery shopping would look like if she really tried to shine. Those are the queens that can make a man’s heart glow. Leave the peacocks to keep getting shitted on by celebrities.

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  • Ninja Bob

    Any woman who has even a whiff of groupie on her gets sent to the back of the line–no matter how fine she is. A large number of those cats in show biz or pro sports ain’t got no real game and if they didn’t have millions of dollars, those mercenary females wouldn’t give them the time of day. Those women are chasing MONEY and willing to whore themselves out to the highest bidder/sucker who’s willing to shell out the dough. Me? I ain’t mad at them but at the same time, I ain’t about to inflate the egos of those females one bit.

    You’re a whore? Hey, that’s cool and all if you’re into that sort of thing but don’t roll this way and expect to get the star treatment. I blame Shaq and the other thirsty cats in the NBA who inflate the egos of these average/borderline ugly looking chicks like his ex-wife Shaunie and the fake as hell chicks filled with silicone like Melyssa Ford.

    I had one wanna be video model try to get me to buy her a drink recently. Now, of course, I’m an older cat and maybe a bit jaded, but I told her that she needed to find one of those thirsty “make it rain” cats. I keep my money in my pocket.

    Fake hair, fake boobs, fake eyelashes, butt implants–ain’t nothing REAL about the majoirty of those so-called “dimes”. You’ll notice that “models” like Melyssa Ford and Esther Baxter have no market visibility if you eliminate thirtsy black males. Madison ave ain’t checking for them and neither should any serious black man.

    • “A large number of those cats in show biz or pro sports ain’t got no real game and if they didn’t have millions of dollars, those mercenary females wouldn’t give them the time of day.”

      PREACH!
      I cosign everything you say on this all the way down to the false presentation. It’s a shame how much is “more than meets the eye” with the dimes we big up on a daily basis (I’m guilty of it myself) this is why I try to stress to the natural beauties that you do not have to go get yourself cut up, implanted and inflated in order to shine. Too bad the media outlets say differently and cats keep chasing the Melyssa Ford clones who want nothing to do with them.

      Thanks for your insight, this is an excellent comment and for you Joe Average’s out there that are soon to be Big Deal Billy’s shoot for the cute and quirky if you want to be happy. Trust.