Disclaimer: if you are not looking for the smart, sophisticated, independent, mature, all around good woman, then do not read any further.  This article is not for you.  However, if you are looking to get that “in” to a sophisticated lady’s heart, one way to do it is through her wine glass.  She is guaranteed to be impressed if you commit the following to memory and have it ready to spew back at her when she least expects it: Know your grapes: Grapes are identified by their varietals, or type of grape used to make the wine.  Basic white wine grapes are chardonnay, sauvignon blanc, riesling, pinot grigio. Usually white wines include the additional flavor of a tree fruit, such as apple, pear, melon, or a citrus flavor like lemon, lime or grapefruit.  Exotic and eccentric white wines will include the taste of tropical fruits, like mango, pineapple  or banana. Basic red grapes are cabernet… [Read more]

Alright boys, listen up… It is extremely important for you to know that where you are a “physical” creature (loving the look, feel, scent, touch, etc.. of a woman), women are very mental creatures (loving the thought of how you treat us and how we feel when with you, the potential you have to make us fall for you, how deeply you can get into our heads, etc..).  Although men tend to make it seem like a difficult task, I’m going to give you two ways of how to keep your girl satisfied mentally without even really trying… 1. Every phone call/text deserves a response. Whether you are a workaholic, have 3 jobs, or are knee deep in some entertainment industry, if you have time to eat and drive to where you are going, you have time to respond to her. Now understand that this is a simple courtesy and has nothing to do with… [Read more]

I recently had a conversation with a guy about one of my girls going to the strip club with her husband. His response was “wow…she’s a cool wife”, and then it occurred to me that not many women see the strip club as a place to bond with their man.  They instead see it as a competition thing, like, “I’m not good enough so he’s going to the strip club to look at other women..sniff sniff..”.  That’s a bullshhh way to look at it, because the bottom line is that a man will see, and probably even talk, to other women constantly while you are not around, and not just in the strip club.  You have to know and accept the fact that some of these women are prettier than you, smarter than you, freakier than you, and more into getting your man into bed than you.  Which is why you need to keep it… [Read more]