Many of us have been caught up with an attractive woman who would not let us “seal the deal”. She does just enough to keep you around but when you proceed farther, she shoots you down or limps away quickly. The term for this is normally called Dick in the Glass Jar Syndrome because in essence you are being trained to become an extra dick in case the one she wants does not work out. Everyone hates to be lonely and the people who suffer most from this fear are people who have been in relationships for a long time. Some people avoid it by being serial daters or serial girlfriends, you never see them alone, yet they are never with someone for a good amount of time. Now I know guys will get defensive and macho then lie that they will dodge the syndrome if they see it coming. But let’s be honest about… [Read more]

Let me preface this article by saying that I may sound as if I am about to use the tired old “strippers are sluts and gold diggers” argument but I’m not. Read the article. Okay here is the thing. I remember when I turned 18 and I went to my first Strip Club. My buddy at the time warned me to play hard-to-get and stretch my money out because he wanted to be there for a bit… since he was dating one of them. Upon hitting the doors to the place, I am propositioned by a full nude woman and bam my measly $60 was done within 15 minutes. After that initial experience I fell in love with the Strip Club, I would go every other month for my lap dance, bed dance whatever the particular club offered but I never went alone, and I never fell in love. It dawned on me even as… [Read more]

As we all know exoticizing any culture is pretty wrong, but is it slowing down? Not quite and I have colleagues who do it without thinking that they are being disrespectful in any way. What am I going on about? Well as a dude does this phrase ring familiar to you? “Man we gotta get out to Brazil, I hear those broads love Americans, are fine as all hell and give up the tail real quick” Chances are if you aren’t the guy saying it, it’s one of your homeboys. So why is it such a believable statement? I am going to bank on a few other things since the media showcases the lighter products of the country like: Adriana Lima and Gisele Bündchen. But let’s not get it twisted, it isn’t the blonde, skinny Brazillians that our friends are alluding to, it’s the dark, thick, big booty Brazilians. The stigma stems from both the… [Read more]

Alright boys, listen up… It is extremely important for you to know that where you are a “physical” creature (loving the look, feel, scent, touch, etc.. of a woman), women are very mental creatures (loving the thought of how you treat us and how we feel when with you, the potential you have to make us fall for you, how deeply you can get into our heads, etc..).  Although men tend to make it seem like a difficult task, I’m going to give you two ways of how to keep your girl satisfied mentally without even really trying… 1. Every phone call/text deserves a response. Whether you are a workaholic, have 3 jobs, or are knee deep in some entertainment industry, if you have time to eat and drive to where you are going, you have time to respond to her. Now understand that this is a simple courtesy and has nothing to do with… [Read more]

Women start relationships with a “representative”, it is a fact so remember it. The representative is a woman who assumes the role of your perfect chick, she likes what you like, she is open-minded and she is tolerant. Once the woman is comfortable with you (basically after you have had sex), the representative floats away and you get a die-toss in favor of who you really just spent the night with. Your open-minded, free spirit could turn into a closed-minded, manipulative airhead in less than a month. Women are like a box of chocolates (even the sexy ones with cute bangs or soft afro-puffs), you never know what you’re gonna get. First impressions are a motherf—, I mean seriously. I went through a relationship with a woman who was the stereotypical archetype of the immature, modern woman (the negative version). A buddy of mine was going through the same thing so we used to swap… [Read more]

You have friends who brag about it, you may have even stumbled into one yourself (but felt you were just the luckiest guy in the world) and you read those fantasy articles in magazines where people lie about having it. But how do you spot a chick willing to get down for the night and leave in the morning? Well according to the accounts of women who are into this, the writing will blatantly be on the walls. Keep in mind that the “signs” are not 100%, chances are you may run into an overly-friendly chick who is naturally that way and wrongly assume that she wants to play. Rest assured she will check you faster than a Pit Boss at a successful run at BlackJack so you may as well go trial and error until you can whore yourself out as planned (yes men can be whores too). As you enter the club/bar you… [Read more]

Some guys get intimidated by workout bunnies, the common theme is that they think these chicks are stuck up, full of themselves or divas. Most of the time I have found them to be quite the opposite… just don’t be that jackass breaking into her workout to sexually harrass her. Just shoot her some eye contact and talk to her when you’re both off the treadmill… or whatever machine it is you do. One thing that makes my argument valid is: People who workout are normally comfortable in their bodies, they look at themselves more than the average individual and monitor their losses/gains on a daily basis. They aren’t worrying about you, what you look like or your imperfections, many of them just want a good guy who isn’t fetishing their bodies or lifestyle. Ever have sex with a muscular woman? Probably not, go ahead and do that then get back to me. I’ve dated… [Read more]

Anybody else ever get this message from women seeking a date? “Hi I like your complexion, I really think we need to hook up, blah, blah, blah” Well I have yet to got this one from non black women but I am willing to bet it’s on the tip of their tongues when contacting me. What’s the deal? this is a new one to me yet lately, I’ve gotten quite a few women emailing that “compliment” in the last month or so. Everytime I see this, I think “fetish” or “shallow” because seriously who would say such a thing? Some quick sex is one thing but I probably won’t take you serious when you say this. I realise that dark skinned men are some sort of fad thing for girls nowadays but this is just weird. I remember the early days of school up until college where girls were looking for the bright, near-white type. Now… [Read more]