Dating can be both fun and a nerve wracking experience, depending on the people. That being said, many of us single-types have experienced the bad dates where there is either no chemistry or the person that you’re with is about as interesting as dirt. Still you cannot judge a book from its cover and giving up on a bore to move on to an exciting person could have you miss out on a great partner due to misreading the situation. We don’t want you to make the same mistakes we have so we offer 4 things that you should at least try before calling it a night. Call an Audible and Change Location Are you really feeling the restaurant, movie or event that you are experiencing with your date? No? Well your date may not be feeling it either and you both may be feeling trapped in thinking that the other person likes it. If… [Read more]

Many times I hear men joke about going at a beautiful woman without any protection. The joke is along the lines of: She is so beautiful that I would HAVE to raw dog it(slang for unprotected sex)! While we all know that this is just a saying made extreme by the way how men tend to joke, the reality is that it really isn’t just a saying. I can firmly say that most men would not turn down celebrity/model ass if it was given to them sans condom. It’s not so much that you start “thinking with your little head” or any other cliche, it’s that we view it as a once in a lifetime opportunity that must be done. MEN! BUST ONE FOR THE ALLIANCE! Fellas, if you’re shaking your head at my assertion and pretending as if you’re above this, let me paint you a scenario. For this example I will use one of… [Read more]

There’s only a few times when a man can go out with a bunch of single women and not look like a fool to other men in observance: If one of the women is his girl, or a chick that he sleeps with (a lot). If he’s banging all of them and they refer to him as “daddy”. If he’s a parent/chaperone and they are under age at some event. Any other time and he will be the subject of harsh judgment by male standards. Some men assume that the man (pound puppy) in a flock of birds is either gay, or some loser playing bff in hopes that he will gain some pity booty by the end of the night. Reality says that this male is normally some cat that doesn’t realize the folly of his ways. Here are a few misconceptions by the men that hang with groups of women: Other dudes will… [Read more]

1. Culture Intelligent women are pretty awesome but a woman that is worldly and knows a lot of little useless facts can make for a great conversationalist. I went out on a date once with standard cool girl and outside of what we were eating I could not vibe with her on any topics. Music – she was only hip to what was on the radio, books – she didn’t do them, travelling? Making trips to and fro from work was about it and anything that was foreign or different, forget about it. Some people don’t know anything outside of their current city, what was taught to them in High School and what they see on television. If you are a man that travels, reads and actually studies, you may not do well with hooking up with a woman like this. If a woman has closed her mind to learning and broadening her horizons then you… [Read more]

Compliments are generally a good idea especially when you are sincere.  For men in relationships, flattery is important because when the woman gets a new hairstyle she is going to want to know what you think about it.  But even before that she will want you to notice it without her prompting you that something changed about her appearance. In many cases many men won’t care either way, but letting her know you’ve noticed is an art form. The Art of Compliments: The first thing you must do is to take into account the woman’s appearance.  Make sure you don’t generalize it with something stupid like “you’re hot” or “Damn baby you got a lot back there”- those type of statements aren’t going to get you far with most women. Pick something specific about her, like her hair, or how her outfit looks because that will let her know that you took the time to… [Read more]

If you put a time restriction on your body, let it be a personal choice and not some magical number invented by a “Guru”. The men that you want (I didn’t say all men, or most men) won’t wait and you can throw as many names at us for this, but the fact is that you are getting false information and it may be detrimental to your dating life. Lets cut through the bull, the philosophy, the feel-good articles and the liars who write them. Women we want to sleep with you, and we want to sleep with you right now. If you turn out to be a cool, down ass chick on the way to the bedroom then we may or may not figure out that we actually love you and want to devote ourselves to you on a full time basis. In this modern microwave, test-drive, fake it till you make it society… [Read more]

It was a saturday afternoon when I went to go meet a cute chick in town for our 2nd date after chasing her down for a week (she had it going on so I was intent on closing the deal). On my way to the spot I called her and received no answer, I thought “okay, I just spoke with her 20 minutes ago so obviously she’s in her car, I’ll text her when I get there”. Arriving at the place some 15 minutes later, I was 5 minutes early for our date so I sat, chilled for a bit and got some water. 15 minutes later after texting her and getting no response, I figured that I was stood up so I chalked it up to the game, waited another 10 minutes and then ordered lunch. Not 3 minutes after ordering my lunch, in walks this bird looking happy as a pig in slop…… [Read more]

While to more intelligent women the title of this article seems like common sense, it will surprise you to know that many women actually believe that men lack feelings. Recently a popular blog I follow ran a poll asking its female readers whether or not they believed that men had feelings and emotions. When the results came back, it was heavily in favor of us lacking. The fact that women believe that we have no feelings explains alot about the manner in which we are treated on dates, in relationships and in everyday life. A woman will disrespect you on a date and keep the conversation coming right after without even missing a breath. A woman thinks that she gets a pass to do foul things to a man and have it be forgiven when she tries to get back with him after the split, all because she believes that he will get over it…. [Read more]