There seems to be this ongoing concern amongst women of our time that the standard of giving up sex within a 3-week period is making it hard to hold us men to a relationship. This can be very true on the surface but the thing you must understand is that sex is an activity to men, it isn’t emotional, special or complicated. For us men, sex is something you do to feel macho, sexy and on top of the world. It is a drug of choice with the only side-effects being STDs and children. This does not mean you can no longer hook us with sex, it just means that having us wait is an old and tired method that will have you wondering why your calls aren’t being returned. Being that as it may, if you want to hook a guy, you have to think outside the “box”. Although it may seem otherwise, most… [Read more]

Being confident and sexy for women is something that some men are blessed with naturally and others have to work at it. Often times magazines and blogs offer guides as to things that should be done in order to attract women but is this general outlook on the fairer sex even realistic? Women are as different as men are so one woman’s attraction is another woman’s turn-off, for this reason following a how-to guide will yield about the same results you had before reading it. Many men lack a good presence to them when they move around throughout society, the guys with swag stand out. In order to be “chosen” one must standout, be apart, be your own sense of cool. Please re-read that last sentence, you must have YOUR OWN sense of cool. When you go emulating Joe Hollywood or your wolf buddy Samuel , you present a transparent façade to the world and… [Read more]

I read a lot of stories from supposedly single women on how they have trouble attracting men. To men who read or hear this we are oft times bewildered as to how and why. The more experienced dater will assume its due to bitchiness, a personality trait or unapproachable behavior. While this is the cause for a lot of guys refusing to step to a woman, the fact of the matter is that a lot of women just don’t know how to show availability. What Men Look For As Safe Openings Body language is as equally important as speech. I am sure you have heard that a million times over but it is true. As a harsh example, if you try talking to someone with your arms crossed and legs in a ready position, it will come across as aggressive. An approachable woman can have a genuine smile that draws you in, if she doesn’t… [Read more]

1. Let the man (always) pay the bill Can all the new age women stand up!  I am still a firm believer that the if a guy asks a woman out he should pay for the date, but there is nothing wrong with a woman stepping up and paying her part of the tab.  It is probably one of the best moves a woman can make if she isn’t interested in the guy he can’t say she took advantage of the situation and if she is interested it will make a big impression on the guy she is with.  Men go into the date expecting  to pay the bill, but when a woman says she will pay her own way she is going to differentiate herself from all the other women the guy may be talking to.  Inevitably you will still have the petty “free meal” women who go on dates just so they can… [Read more]

Men, step up and claim your women. Is it me or do we have a sort of retreat by men as a whole when it comes to the more alpha type women? If we see the assets blooming, the bank account full and her attitude solid, we slink away assuming she’s a bitch with an agenda. I need to know when was it that our balls started shrinking and moving north up into our stomachs. When did it become an unwanted challenge to slay a Dragon, cut down other knights and climb a tower in order to claim a buxom babe as ours. Why are we afraid of a career woman with a little bit of attitude? Doesn’t the reward far outweigh the hassle once the shields have dropped, the thighs have parted and you share in the pleasures of partnership and romance? I know exactly what it is boys, you think she’s going to… [Read more]

Talking to a beautiful woman is by nature an intimidating task for most men. It is a strange phenomena being that without much extras, a woman is a woman and beauty is subjective when you think about it. Still, you have women who are cute, women who are beautiful and then women who make you consider your self worth just by seeing them. The hardest woman for a man to approach is, you guessed it the drop-dead gorgeous ones. To get past this stigma a man must apply a few tricks to his mind in order to strike up the courage to get past what I call the armor of Venus. See the beauty is like an invisible armor that the woman is unaware of, sure many look and smile from afar, admiring her perfection but few if any will even engage her with casual conversation. A man who wants to get to know this… [Read more]

In an ongoing effort to save guys from themselves I run into issues periodically where men just aren’t thinking before acting. After reading an article over at The Shooting Range about hitting on a teller, I thought about it and asked myself “why would you do this?” I don’t care if it’s Halle Berry behind the counter, the wrath of people in line and your 100% chance of appearing as a douche should tell you that maybe this isn’t the venue. Smart men on the dating scene know that certain jobs held by women have a 0-5% chance of success rate if you press them. These hardcore jobs will be explored in an upcoming series called “Breaking the Ice” where I talk to men who have successfully courted women in these positions and finding out how they managed to do it! 7 Jobs to Avoid When Scamming on Chicks Strippers Bartenders Bank Tellers Waitresses Traffic… [Read more]

We all know that chick who has a kid or kids and who has not owned up to the sacrifice that comes with putting someone else’s life before hers.  She is the one who is still living her life the same as it was prior to being pregnant. This girl gives off a “babysitter” feel and not a “child rearing” feel. Consequences of the child’s future do not enter her mind, usually because she was either never taught to care for a child (only to “watch” the child) and never had a positive role model on how to do so.  I want to give advice to this woman. Not because I look down on her, but because I think she needs to wake up in order to reap the many rewards of motherhood.  Don’t get me wrong, there are plenty bumps and bruises that come along with any level of good mothering. However, these are… [Read more]