Deal Breakers – How to Fix Them
Deal Breaker: noun. Any issue or factor that is significant enough to terminate a negotiation. It could be that she loves pop music and you do not. She loves gourmet meals on a Friday night, but you are content with your Ramen noodles and chicken wings. You always put things back where you got them from and she is from the school of “I’ll do it later”. Whatever it is, if you treat it like a serious issue, it can always become a deal breaker. You have to remember that not all people have the same thought process when it comes... [Read more]
Man vs Spa
There was a time when men going to the spa was considered a gay activity, so I can understand where the man’s man would want to argue the validity of him laying in a chair with someone rubbing his feet. However, lately, there has been an influx of men who go to the spa to the point that they now make up about a third of the spa population. The places to go are no longer catered to women where the man feels out of place, but they have gender neutral atmospheres and special treatments just for him. MANicures As a woman with soft skin,... [Read more]
Show Her Some Love on Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is coming boys, and you must be prepared if you do not want to be the butt of your girlfriend’s jokes when she is talking to her friends. Even if she loves you forever, and always appreciates you and your efforts, unfortunately it is the time of the year to take the time to prove how much you love her back. In the process, you must keep in mind to impress her friends as well, as it is inevitable that their reactions will matter to your girl. Here are a few tips to make sure you stay in the “perfect... [Read more]
Worthless Love – Dating a Married Man
The cycle of the love affair with a married man almost always ends in broken hearts, hurt, and wasted time. Sure you have those once in a million times where the man actually leaves his wife for another, but for the most part, it is a script for adultery disaster. The love affair with the married man starts with a man who married for the wrong reasons and thus never truly felt fulfilled in his commitment to the wife. They probably have kids together and that is the only bond they share. The ideal woman for this guy is the girl who... [Read more]
Nice Girl Remedy: Getting Past the Past
People always say that its only when pet peeves and annoying ways come into play that you realize how much you are willing to put up with when it comes to dating… once you know how much you are willing to put up with (and what you definitely are not) you tend to migrate towards and settle with someone who fits that mold. Then there’s that chick. We all know who she is, the one who for whatever reason, her issues are always the sole controller of her emotions when she meets someone and gets close to a real relationship. Could... [Read more]
What Not to do in a Relationship
We have all been in that relationship that lasts long enough to create a comfortable situation in which the real you emerges. You know, the kind where you are not afraid to burp, pass gas, be seen taking the Fabreeze with you to the bathroom, etc. As a young woman I took to heart the dating 101 rule of never eat spaghetti with a man who is not an official boyfriend, as slurping the noodles and slinging sauce across the table on his shirt is not a good look. Now that I’m grown, I realize life is life and everybody goes through it. ... [Read more]
Thugs vs. Gangstas: One Woman’s View
Where my rag wearing soldiers that Love to watch the dough stack Never leave the house without their strap (That’s what I’m looking for) They know just what a woman need Keep a big bank roll and a bag of weed When it’s time to go down they ain’t scared to freak, (That’s what I’m looking for) Where my Rolley wearing thugs who Claim they don’t love you But any time you want something done, they do it (That’s what I’m looking for) The ball all night type Frontin’,... [Read more]
Nia says No Scrubs Allowed!
I was having lunch with a girlfriend and out of nowhere, this young cat comes up to our table while on what appeared to be his break from the kitchen, and says “I’m sorry, I just had to come over here and tell you both that I want to buy your food”. We both looked at him like “okay..” but then he reaches in his pocket and was like “I think I have my food stamps in here somewhere”. He pauses, then smiles and says, “naw, I’m just kidding”. She looked at him and chuckled a bit. I gave him the evil eye and went back... [Read more]
20 ways to be on some Grown Man sh-t
Written by Ed The Sports Fan from his excellent sports blog edthesportsfan.com. This list of 20 things is only appropriate for the self respecting alpha male who finds the need to posture, pose and stunt a tad childish. Read on and enjoy, I know I did when I saw it reposted on AverageBro.com, it isn’t just funny, it should be common sense. So since Jay-Z came out with “Excuse Me Miss,” The term “Grown and Sexy” has been thrown around more than Karrine Stephens backstage at the BET awards. If you’re... [Read more]
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