Deal Breakers – How to Fix Them
Deal Breaker: noun. Any issue or factor that is significant enough to terminate a negotiation. It could be that she loves pop music and you do not. She loves gourmet meals on a Friday night, but you are content with your Ramen noodles and chicken wings. You always put things back where you got them from and she is from the school of “I’ll do it later”. Whatever it is, if you treat it like a serious issue, it can always become a deal breaker. You have to remember that not all people have the same thought process when it comes... [Read more]
The Do’s and Don’ts of Dating a Woman with Children
When you get to your mid 30’s living by the old standby of “I ain’t dating no chicks with kids” will keep you single forever so most guys adjust it to a number, she can only have (x) amount of kids. Knowing this sucks for the woman who got pregnant married out of high school, established a family early and can’t find the father fell out with the man later (for whatever reason), I will preface this by saying that I feel your pain. Many times the standards will get thrown out the door if the woman is fine beyond imagination,... [Read more]
Men and Bad Breakups – Big Boys Don’t Cry
Women I know you are moving to blur the lines even more as time goes on but please for the love of god accept our machismo and stop trying to change it. When a dude doesn’t cry over a breakup or runs to a blog to spew a whole bunch of “bitches ain’t shit” that doesn’t mean he’s insensitive, or cold, it means that he’s a man. When men as a whole start crying because their women dumped them and start bemoaning how much they miss their exes I think it’s time for the UFO to come whisk me off this little planet because at that... [Read more]
Show Her Some Love on Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is coming boys, and you must be prepared if you do not want to be the butt of your girlfriend’s jokes when she is talking to her friends. Even if she loves you forever, and always appreciates you and your efforts, unfortunately it is the time of the year to take the time to prove how much you love her back. In the process, you must keep in mind to impress her friends as well, as it is inevitable that their reactions will matter to your girl. Here are a few tips to make sure you stay in the “perfect... [Read more]
5 Reasons Why He Won’t Commit to Marriage
As I peruse many blogs daily on the internet there seems to be a very popular theme with marriage and why men won’t commit. The argument is largely one-sided as it is mostly women chiming in on it and hardly men. If you were to go on these blogs and take the testimonies and the feedback from their female commenters, you would think that most men are immature, clueless, or just plain stupid. The reason for this is there doesn’t seem to be much self-reflection from these women when it comes to why their 5+ year relationship... [Read more]
Worthless Love – Dating a Married Man
The cycle of the love affair with a married man almost always ends in broken hearts, hurt, and wasted time. Sure you have those once in a million times where the man actually leaves his wife for another, but for the most part, it is a script for adultery disaster. The love affair with the married man starts with a man who married for the wrong reasons and thus never truly felt fulfilled in his commitment to the wife. They probably have kids together and that is the only bond they share. The ideal woman for this guy is the girl who... [Read more]
What Makes a Woman Unapproachable, Misunderstood and Lonely
So a single man walks into a building and sees three women that are similarly attractive. Girl one is of his status, has the persona that would likely match him perfectly and is at the party looking for a potential date. When our guy looks her way, she chooses not to look at him even though she finds him attractive. Girl number two is at the party to have a good time, she has had her share of dates and knows how to flirt to get what she wants. Upon seeing our boy, she gives him a little smile and returns to what she was doing. Girl number... [Read more]
Too Cool for Cyber? Don’t be Scurred
So you use the internet for work, gaming and surfing porn but somehow online dating is still taboo to you. Why is this? Don’t you know that as time passes on and you become busier, more locked into a routine and more inflexible to change, the dating pool will shrink to a mere cup? With online dating you can have your cake and eat it too. Instead of forcing in time to troll the bars of TGIF and Bennigan’s looking for tipsy, happy hour single, you could easily login, scroll through some attractive profiles and try your hand... [Read more]
Solutions for The Single Black Female
I seem to come across articles daily bemoaning the plight of the single black female, no not women of color but black women specifically. I will say this to you black women, you aren’t the only ones that are sick and tired of reading these statistics and blog fodder so don’t feel like it’s the world against you. One of the reason these articles are so hot for journalists is because it inspires immediate emotion and bitterness from the accused. Hell go to any blog about the subject and hear the echoes of how sh-tty us black men are... [Read more]
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