Love Me Or Leave Me Alone – Pt. 2
You Took Too Long, Let’s Just Be Friends “The professional man has time on his side, and he is not going to deviate from his plan just because he sees a pretty face.” There are only a select few times when a man and woman can be friends even when there is attraction involved – 1. You were co-workers or classmates, 2. You are his friend’s girlfriend, wife or cool ex, 3. You are his cool ex (you broke up as an agreement not out of malice), and finally 4. You are a friend’s family member. If you aren’t in this list... [Read more]
Love Me Or Leave Me Alone – Pt. 1
I’m Sorry I Messed Up, Are You Dating Anybody Right Now? The game of courtship can be a rewarding one, men earn themselves a beautiful, loving mate and women earn romance stories to brag to their girlfriends about. One of my best friends planted his wife’s engagement ring amongst the branches of the tree that they first kissed under. It is no doubt that she will tell that story forever – they just celebrated the birth of their second child, it’s a beautiful thing. The majority of my friends are seemingly happy in their marriages,... [Read more]
Developing a Manly Attitude for Jealousy
“Cause don’t forget who’s taking you home and in whose arms you’re gonna be, so darlin’ save the last dance for me” - The Drifters Its an ongoing debate as to whether jealousy is inherently a female trait or not. While many guys tend to fall into the passionate/lover boy role because we know ourselves better than any woman does. We know that guys do not pursue women for friendship and we know that Julio getting her number at work means that Julio wants to get in her panties badly. Women who willingly... [Read more]
Quit Being Cute and Man the f-ck Up!
I fear for the future, I really do and for frequent readers of my blog, this will seem like a dead horse that has been kicked, molested and kicked again but I have legitimate concern and so I write. It seems that the strong surge in feminism has caused men to tuck their tails and run for the hills in this new age. Common sense would decree that a woman can be treated fairly, be allowed the same freedoms as men and fight for respect and understanding without it imposing on a man being a man. Yet somehow it has become evident that as women... [Read more]
The Do’s and Don’ts of Dating a Woman with Children
When you get to your mid 30’s living by the old standby of “I ain’t dating no chicks with kids” will keep you single forever so most guys adjust it to a number, she can only have (x) amount of kids. Knowing this sucks for the woman who got pregnant married out of high school, established a family early and can’t find the father fell out with the man later (for whatever reason), I will preface this by saying that I feel your pain. Many times the standards will get thrown out the door if the woman is fine beyond imagination,... [Read more]
Courting vs Stalking, A Lesson in Self Respect
One of the goals that the Hall of The Black Dragon serves is to help young men realize their potential in the balance of gangster grit with a gentleman’s suave. We intend to help grow young James Bonds and preserve manliness in a world that is hell bent on telling us that manliness is wrong. So if at times I seem to harp on what you call “Neanderthal” principles and then contradict it with an article about pampering your lady, you must understand that the two are not mutually exclusive. You have to learn to be a knife... [Read more]
Men and Bad Breakups – Big Boys Don’t Cry
Women I know you are moving to blur the lines even more as time goes on but please for the love of god accept our machismo and stop trying to change it. When a dude doesn’t cry over a breakup or runs to a blog to spew a whole bunch of “bitches ain’t shit” that doesn’t mean he’s insensitive, or cold, it means that he’s a man. When men as a whole start crying because their women dumped them and start bemoaning how much they miss their exes I think it’s time for the UFO to come whisk me off this little planet because at that... [Read more]
Gold Cuff Theory – Why Women Stay Losing
Hey ladies, the game has changed. Let me repeat that, the game has changed. While you were being drilled by your unhappily married momma to go get your education, a secure corporate job and a man who has done much more than you to play hunter/gatherer. The game up and changed itself into a six headed hydra that has got you all hustling backwards in this relationship thing. It’s made for some good reading as the new buzzwords of “black, woman, hair, single, anger” in no particular order has brought many a blog instant... [Read more]
Uncle Charles aka Charley Hustle
You know, it is very common for men of my generation to view their fathers as strangers. I mean being a bastard is a common thing for us 70’s babies, isn’t that crazy? Growing up with an attractive single mother has landed me in many fights with disrespectful peers, and has shown me the difference between a man and a bitch-made dude. Momma had a few of the latter and my brother and I watched and learned throughout the years how to look into a man’s soul and see his worth. I don’t take sides in the custodial battle... [Read more]
Love Me Or Leave Me Alone – Pt. 2
Love Me Or Leave Me Alone – Pt. 1
How Do I Bang a Porn Star?
Developing a Manly Attitude for Jealousy
Deal Breakers – How to Fix Them
John Mayer Tells Us There’s Something About Jessica
