Once in a while when a man and a woman is dating there begins to surface a set of questions from the woman as to whether the man is still interested or not. Women let me get this out there first before I address the questions; men aren’t going to give you their heart and intent on a subject matter just because you ask it. This goes for dumb questions like asking a man if he’s gay and it goes for seemingly innocent questions like whether or not we’re bored. Most of the time we either don’t know or we won’t tell you for fear of it becoming the subject of the night. Let a man chill the hell out and he will value your company more than you think. I like to call the question circus “hen pecking”. Have you ever seen chicken go at some feed when there’s barely any left? They peck,… [Read more]

Men and women have disagreements but sometimes we go too far and do unforgivable acts. But what are some of the things that us men tend to have no tolerance with? We do put up with a lot if a woman is pretty, hell if she is way out of our league we put up with murder. Many men however do not have that hang-up, we have principles and we would dump any woman no matter her looks. The following is a list of 10 things that modern men find to be rational reasons to leave their significant other. Cheating (sleeping with someone else – man or woman). While some men can deal with cheating, the lies and attempt to cover it up will be considered foul either way. Emasculating – Chop a man’s balls off verbally in public and pack your sh-t and leave when you get home. Most guys don’t recover from a… [Read more]

Let’s face it, beauty can strike a man weak and beautiful women make for nice posters, magazine spreads and wallpaper, but there’s nothing like sexiness to trump the power of beauty. What I am getting at is a bit complex to explain but I can use a real world example to show you my meaning. If a woman is sexy, or has become sexy through clothing, walk, talk or working out, she can convince a man to be nuts for her a lot faster than anything else a woman can do. Now some of you men will argue that “ya but you have to wake up to that face in the morning” but I assure you that a woman’s aura can make you so drunk as to bypass all that “what if” nonsense and before long you will be the guy that has all the cute girls wondering “why is that good looking guy with… [Read more]

Smack! You feel tears streaming down your eyes but he just doesn’t stop.Your cries and screams instead urge him to hit you harder, with more brute force than ever before. Doesn’t this creature realize what a sin it is to hurt a woman? First, he makes you cry and then he hits you. Your body hurts from the beating and your face stings from the slaps but you’re made to think that it’s your fault; that if you hadn’t said or done something he wouldn’t have hit you. Don’t be afraid to leave this monster. There are friends and family that can and will help you, you just need to place a little trust in them. I am a passing ship in the night, but even I will carry your message through. I understand how hard it is when all you want is a man to truly love you… deeply. I know how it feels to sit… [Read more]

If your over the age of 30 and still in search of this beautiful single woman that has no children and is everything that you’re dreaming of you may need to take a step back and think about it really, really hard. Not only do you have time working against you, but the reality of people having tried the family thing while you have relished in your singledom. Finding that woman over 30 that has no children and is physically what you need is possible but you have to factor in the chance that she will not want you. This leaves very little fish in your pool despite the imbalance of women to men in the numbers game. You may as well say you want a woman with 3 breasts. We call her the “Golden Pegasus“, she’s still single, no children (but very fertile), damn near a virgin, fun-loving, drop-dead gorgeous and can broil a… [Read more]

Men are not in trouble, the gender war is another faux problem created to mask us all from the reality of the overall human situation. If you find yourself reading articles by men and women claiming that men of today are hopeless, lost and unnecessary, please consider the source before you let their assertion upset you. Men have not been denied any privileges in the modern age, we haven’t been locked down, and we haven’t been made to relocate. What has happened is that the playing field that many women and men fought to have leveled is more than on its way to evening out. When change like this happens, much like segregation, change in laws, change in housing or hell any change whatsoever, the bigots come through in droves with their articles, one-liners and commentary of hate disguised as intelligent discourse. Lately the focus has shifted in the blogosphere from the woes of the… [Read more]

There are many insecure men, countless actually and while they may not come off that way on the surface, in reality they are scared to death. What Makes A Man Insecure The quick answer to this question is society. The same problems that plague women, plague men just the same. Men feel that if they aren’t the richest, most handsome baller in the world, women will not want them. If they find a woman that loves them, it makes them worry that she won’t stick around. There is no cure for a man’s insecurity, he has to cross that bridge of confidence on his own. If a woman is with a man like this she will have many nights of consoling him, telling him she isn’t going anywhere and dealing with his jealous overreactions. A Man Shouldn’t Compare Himself To His Woman If you’re a confident man then you don’t add up what you have… [Read more]

There’s only a few times when a man can go out with a bunch of single women and not look like a fool to other men in observance: If one of the women is his girl, or a chick that he sleeps with (a lot). If he’s banging all of them and they refer to him as “daddy”. If he’s a parent/chaperone and they are under age at some event. Any other time and he will be the subject of harsh judgment by male standards. Some men assume that the man (pound puppy) in a flock of birds is either gay, or some loser playing bff in hopes that he will gain some pity booty by the end of the night. Reality says that this male is normally some cat that doesn’t realize the folly of his ways. Here are a few misconceptions by the men that hang with groups of women: Other dudes will… [Read more]