Jan 14

Let me preface this article by saying that I know there are times when a woman is the aggressor. When a big 6ft 250 lb gorilla chick will club her man to emasculate him and any retaliation results in him being thrown in jail. I get that, I understand it and I know when it comes to fights the man is playing with a 7 and a 2 off suit. Still, if your sumo girlfriend socks you I have no beef with you for socking her back, what I do have beef with is if she comes out the mouth at you (and you are strong enough to  literally bench press her), you closing your fist and pounding her. That’s not cool, a strong dude can check a woman without going there, why do you? As a child growing up into adulthood most little boys… [Read more]

Nov 10

Where my rag wearing soldiers that Love to watch the dough stack Never leave the house without their strap (That’s what I’m looking for) They know just what a woman need Keep a big bank roll and a bag of weed When it’s time to go down they ain’t scared to freak, (That’s what I’m looking for) Where my Rolley wearing thugs who Claim they don’t love you But any time you want something done, they do it (That’s what I’m looking for) The ball all night type Frontin’, screaming, thug life That’s the type of nigga I like (That’s what I’m looking for) –    Da Brat “That’s What I’m Looking For” So I had a conversation with a close friend of mine that is going through a break up and she questioned her odds at finding another man now that she has children.  She… [Read more]

Nov 09

Have you ever opened a door for someone, or held it open out of courtesy only to be scoffed at or unappreciated for doing so? Chances are after a few times of experiencing this within a given area, you will stop doing it and conform to the ways of the people around you. If you are the type who doesn’t look for a “thank you” or a smile in return for your graciousness then more power to you, you are a rarity. For most people however, a show of courtesy deserves a show of gratitude in return. Think about it, when someone opens a door for you or helps you up into a train etc., a simple smile and nod or a “thank you” does not take much at all. When you do not return this to the helper, you are instantly seen as a… [Read more]

Oct 29

I’ve been meaning to write this article for some time but held off on it due to my not wanting to step on toes etc. I have a married friend who has not spent any time in prison, has a beautiful family and has no street gang or organized crime affiliation. Yet without hesitation I can say he is the most “gangster” individual I know. How is this? Well the term originated with organized crime, it was something that outsiders would call the wiseguys and the clubs of fellas that were doing their gang thing on the streets back in the day. As time passed and Hollywood became involved, the dangerous wiseguy of the slums became idealized into a street knight who chooses illicit ventures to profit while sticking to a harsh code of discipline. When musicians started claiming to be gangsters, they would reference… [Read more]

Aug 19

Such a cliché to say the nice guys finish last. I have had my share of bad boys and had numerous conversations with my girls about why we go for the bad boy type vs. the nice guy. All have several reasons but it boils down to a few general topics that will give a bit of insight to why women stay with the one who treats them like yesterday’s garbage, but that dude who showers her with compliments and is always there when she needs him is kept in the “glass jar”. Nice guys tend to have a weak chase game. Most women have an innate need to feel wanted and love being pursued. Nice guys have an approach where they give distance. They do not want to come off as rude or like they just want to get into your pants. This is… [Read more]

Jul 06

Let me preface this article by saying that I may sound as if I am about to use the tired old “strippers are sluts and gold diggers” argument but I’m not. Read the article. Okay here is the thing. I remember when I turned 18 and I went to my first Strip Club. My buddy at the time warned me to play hard-to-get and stretch my money out because he wanted to be there for a bit… since he was dating one of them. Upon hitting the doors to the place, I am propositioned by a full nude woman and bam my measly $60 was done within 15 minutes. After that initial experience I fell in love with the Strip Club, I would go every other month for my lap dance, bed dance whatever the particular club offered but I never went alone, and I… [Read more]