Dec 31

One of the best ways to get comfortable with women is to learn to be a natural flirt – the same way many of them do. We all know women who bring about a rise in men whenever they come around smiling, talking and doing things that are near the line of flirting but just don’t cross it. Men have struggled with the concept of flirting since the beginning of time because quite frankly we have too much reverence for women. We are afraid of what they will think, how it will look and oh my god she may actually “gasp” reject us! Flirting without expectations means that in a social atmosphere you are suave and debonair, you touch hands, you make borderline naughty jokes, and you just don’t give a damn what anybody thinks – within reason. We all know that there is a… [Read more]

Dec 17
woman rejecting a man

When a man asks a woman out, to bed, or to anything outside of friendship-level interaction often times it turns into a complicated stand-off akin to the old westerns when good versus evil stared each other down with 6-shooters. It becomes such a mentally exhausting exercise that women run to sites like this one (or forums) to see how they can “let him down easily” and the guy ends up getting the signals all messed up because she opts to go for a baby tap on his nose versus the knockout blow that he expects. This is why the friend-zone exists ladies and gentlemen; we men are dealt a response that leans towards future hope when in reality the woman isn’t feeling us now and probably never will. When we talked to men about the aspect of rejection the answer was almost concert in that a hard… [Read more]

Dec 14
dragon bites

We’re not only writers, we’re readers and below are some of the highlights of the past few weeks that we wish to share: Pimp Who Branded Prostitutes With Homages To Himself Sentenced To Life – In addition to raping and terrorizing the women he forced into prostitution, Campbell, 47, branded the women with homages of himself in highly visible places on their bodies. Life sentences are not common for pimps, but U.S. District Judge Robert Gettleman said the branding of the women warranted one in Campbell’s case… (NEWSONE) The Reason MEN Double Back to Sex Their Ex… Instead of the Next – It’s quite simple why sex with your ex is better than sex with your next. There is the familiarity: knowing what each other likes, the perfect spot to set the mood right, the turn ons, and the game plan you need to have… [Read more]

Nov 26
man and woman talking

One of the chief complaints women have with the dating game is that there are quite a few guys who they assume “fear commitment”. In the past when I heard this accusation I would translate it to “he won’t make me exclusive in the time I have decided is reasonable”. Many times the guy doesn’t fear commitment, he just doesn’t want to commit to YOU—but you know this already. Most men will commit once they find a woman who they want to be with – or can’t be without but there are some who like to fly free and the following list is an attempt to explain why they feel better alone. A List of 5 Reasons That Some Men Fear Commitment 1. Warning from Married Friends When you have more than a few buddies who took their vows early telling you to enjoy life… [Read more]

Nov 22

Being pussy-whipped can be a circumstantial thing or a habitual thing. Some men live to surrender to any woman who has sex with them and it comes at the expense of friends and family. Even regular guys may have it happen to them once in a blue moon when they run into the woman of their dreams—or a woman who is so good in bed that it takes them by surprise and blows their mind. Some men aren’t that crazy about sex and will always keep their minds despite how good a woman is in bed. To men like this it doesn’t matter how beautiful she looks, or how liberal she is with sleeping with them; they keep their heads. Other men are not as strong and fall quickly in love whenever sex starts happening. Then there are the guys who we call suckers, or “sucker for love” who… [Read more]

Nov 19
women talking to a man

One of the best feelings a man can have when it comes to the dating game is a feeling of content. What I mean by this is that when you have other things going on—several women in your phone who are somewhat available when called—and no pressure to get into anything serious, you are the cock of the walk. Let me explain why. There have been times when I had a phone full of numbers, accessible ex-girlfriend, and my dress game, physique and wallet were on point. There is nothing you could tell me to do for some woman’s attention that I felt I had to do. No, the attitude was – if she wants some of this then she would come get some of this. Needless to say I was on a celebrity level of high when I went out. Now let’s compare the… [Read more]

Nov 13
doug and carrie

Compared to men of the 80’s and 90’s, the men we see in television shows, movies and even life have change drastically. There are subtle signs of this change which you probably haven’t noticed, but the alpha male is gone from television. Let me explain… Television’s Fat Stupid Hubby With A Pretty Hot Wife One of my favorite shows of all time is King of Queens, I think Carrie is the ultimate alpha femme – she’s beautiful, a bit bossy, knows what she wants, and can kick any chick’s ass who crosses her (I do love me some Carrie). Doug? Well he’s a lovable teddy bear; he’s a big guy but he’s all soft edges and heart. Doug is a great guy who many women would kill to have but he became the king–no pun intended–of the stereotypical Beta Male that television loves. The list… [Read more]

Oct 25
couples argument

Man Up! It’s bad enough that in this day and age men can’t be solid on what defines manhood without some buffet feminist slapping us with a Misogyny stamp let alone for someone we love to tell us to man up. What exactly is manning up and why would a woman know it any better than another man? It’s an emasculating and uncompromising utterance aimed at men to mask the true intent of telling us that “we are acting weak and feminine”. This is why it is an unforgivable statement in most circumstances. Even if your man is being a punk it is not up to you to tell him to “man up” ever. You Don’t Own Me! Sure none of us own one another truly but isn’t that what the labels, the rings and the commitment is about? What do you mean I don’t own you?… [Read more]