Once in awhile as a man you will find yourself surrounded by a flock of birds, pecking at you in attempt to have you bleed out the man laws. It is times like this when a man can figure out if he is steadfast in his principles or confused and dazed when made to think about it. If it has never happened to you, be sure and prepare yourself for it because it will occur if you find yourself in the company of more than 2 women, one being freshly single and alcohol being involved. If you don’t understand what it is I am getting at, just picture a collection of women in a question and answer with one guy as to “why do men do this?” My testing came about during the 50th birthday of my mother, as I played bartender to a good number of patrons, most being older, single women who had… [Read more]

I understand that women are from Venus and we are from Mars or whatever planet you wanna call it but one of the most confusing things to me about women is the hate factor. Women HATE each other so much that when I meet a girl who has a close girlfriend, I assume that there is a superficial reasoning behind it. Now there are exceptions to the rule because I’ve seen some pretty tight, sisterly relationships that weather the storm of life but let’s be honest, unlike men, it doesn’t seem to take much for two women to fall out. Women think their friends want to screw their man, they think their friends are sluts, the list can keep going. The main reason for this article however is in my observance of women shooting units (nasty looks) at other women who has a guy on their arm. This tends to be more prevalent in cases… [Read more]

There is always an explanation as to why one is single (no time, demanding job, just plain old don’t want a relationship, etc), but for some reason, it’s unacceptable for pretty “nice girls”, who seem to have it going on, to not have a man in their life that they do not call “daddy”. As one of the many nice girls who have been ate up and spit out by past mistakes, I wanted to take time to give some insight as to why some women, very pretty ones at that, tend to be at the wrong end of that oh so dreaded “You are such a great person, why are you single?!?”. Nice girls more than likely have a hidden insecurity that stems from their childhood. Understand that pretty girls who are “nice” usually have some sort of past middle/high school hurt that separated them from the “mean” girls at school who were hot,… [Read more]

I know a lot of you single women out there are pretty tired of the cliché statements and reasoning behind you not having a man. We know them so well that we could write an entire concerto to the sound of repetitive one-liners, anecdotes and reasons but I aim to explain from a personal standpoint what has scared me away from certain women and how I broke it off.  In the first part of this series, I will break down the three age levels of women in dating (especially online) and make general assumptions based on experience. The second half will cover real experiences and the last part will wrap it all up with a nice blue bow. To begin, let me put an annoying sentiment to rest where women with assets think that a man has to “earn” their attention. This line of thinking combined with the fact that the fairer sex outnumbers us… [Read more]

As we all know exoticizing any culture is pretty wrong, but is it slowing down? Not quite and I have colleagues who do it without thinking that they are being disrespectful in any way. What am I going on about? Well as a dude does this phrase ring familiar to you? “Man we gotta get out to Brazil, I hear those broads love Americans, are fine as all hell and give up the tail real quick” Chances are if you aren’t the guy saying it, it’s one of your homeboys. So why is it such a believable statement? I am going to bank on a few other things since the media showcases the lighter products of the country like: Adriana Lima and Gisele Bündchen. But let’s not get it twisted, it isn’t the blonde, skinny Brazillians that our friends are alluding to, it’s the dark, thick, big booty Brazilians. The stigma stems from both the… [Read more]

It should be common knowledge that women tend to hate on each other more than anyone else on the planet. Just go out on a date with a wife/girlfriend/friend and observe the comments she makes (or the looks she gives) to other women, if you are clueless about this. Well I was curious about whatever happened to some of the musical groups of my past and girl band SWV was up on my list today. After doing some sleuthing I found out that one is married, one likes girls, and one is an author! When I saw this, I immediately looked up the book Player HateHER by Tamara Antrice Johnson (TAJ) and Katrina R. Chambers. Here is an excerpt: “For instance, you’re having a get-together at your house and you realize you still need a few extra odds and ends from the grocery store. You think to yourself let me hurry and get there before… [Read more]

“why you over there lookin’ at me, while my girl standin’ here?” – Mase So yesterday after our sunday sprints, myself and two friends strolled by a couple girls and a boyfriend doing that bar-bq cliche people do on sundays. Immediately the chicks stopped what they were doing and focused a hard stare at us… granted dude was soft in the middle and we are athletic, this struck me as odd being that the act was disrespectful to dude (in my opinion). The stare continued as we strolled by and the guy, obviously deeming it hopeless turns around and starts attending to something else. One of my friends started to dare the girls to commence dialogue but luckily he didn’t. After this ocurrence I googled the activity because I wanted to see if I was being off in my assumption that this is disrespectful. I mean, I know guys do it but I don’t go… [Read more]

Some guys get intimidated by workout bunnies, the common theme is that they think these chicks are stuck up, full of themselves or divas. Most of the time I have found them to be quite the opposite… just don’t be that jackass breaking into her workout to sexually harrass her. Just shoot her some eye contact and talk to her when you’re both off the treadmill… or whatever machine it is you do. One thing that makes my argument valid is: People who workout are normally comfortable in their bodies, they look at themselves more than the average individual and monitor their losses/gains on a daily basis. They aren’t worrying about you, what you look like or your imperfections, many of them just want a good guy who isn’t fetishing their bodies or lifestyle. Ever have sex with a muscular woman? Probably not, go ahead and do that then get back to me. I’ve dated… [Read more]