Guys I hate to break it to you but we are already in the friend-zone when we meet a woman, like it or not. It’s true and I’ll tell you why, a woman makes a mental decision upon first impression whether she can bring herself to sleep with you or not. If you aren’t a guy that’s impressive enough to stand apart as a worthwhile partner or and exciting side-piece, guess what? BINGO! You’re going to be a friend for life and she won’t even tell you. A man really cannot control this fact outside of doing his best not to mess his chances up by turning into a douchebag. Women can write down a million things on paper as to what they want in a man and you can be her solid prototype and she will lock her legs on some old “I can’t see myself getting with someone that got my number in… [Read more]

I have found that a woman’s sexual enthusiasm starts at the beginning of your date as opposed to the moment you decide to get freaky. This is one of those areas where the sexes differ greatly and men make the mistake of assuming otherwise. When your old lady is getting ready for the show and she asks that retarded “how do I look” question, you have to factor in the sex you may be having after the concert. If you don’t, your comfort with her may lead you to be honest and tell her she looks a little chunky. While she may take it in stride, change her clothes and have a great time with you on the town, the entire time it may be on her mind that she isn’t that hot to you… anymore. Talk about a buzz kill, you will have forgotten that you mentioned that to her and by the end… [Read more]

There is absolutely nothing more sexy than a grown woman with a figure that’s solid. Think Serena Williams, Melyssa Ford, Vida Guerra, and Jessica Biel. Do you know what these women have in common besides celebrity? They work out. They aren’t disillusioned 30-somethings sloppily wearing the clothes they wore back in their early twenties. Many women who were once “built” are now heavy and still dress like the days when they were perfect. It’s sad to see women who dress as if they still got it and I blame us men for allowing them to continue the facade. The reason this happens is because women neglect their maintenance, all the women I mentioned earlier have a workout regimen. The only people that can get away with eating and living without workout maintenance are ex-athletes with godly metabolism, genetic freaks of nature or full time dancers. This isn’t a rallying cry to make thick women skinny… [Read more]

Every strong woman that I have ever dated has been a sweetheart when it came to the actual relationship. I think that a lot of tough girls who stand up for themselves and can physically fight you back, are stereotyped wrongly as this hyper-masculine, evil, bitch that isn’t capable of love. Many of you reading have seen a strong woman walking around with a guy that you assume is either weaker than she is or if he’s muscular – you assume him a big, patient, teddy bear type. Then you wonder at how he could possibly deal with her whenever the arguments start. I’ll tell you this right now, it takes a special kind of guy to date a strong woman – personally I have never had a problem with it. The main reason for this is that strong women in matters of love and affection are no different than the girly girls. Being able… [Read more]

Many times we are faced with the unfortunate situation of squaring off with our “better half” over a disagreement. Some couples settle things passive aggressively, some come to fisticuffs (don’t do it fellas) and others come to a ground and go right back to loving one another. For the people who aren’t fortunate enough to settle things in a fight – the worst things are said, heard and remembered. These verbal barbs are sometimes worse than punches as they stay with you forever and can make for you to really hate your partner. The following list contains some of the most venomous words heard by men when their women are intent on causing hurt. For you men reading, let me know if any have been left out. 10 Things Women Say in Arguments To Hurt Men It’s funny how much you hate your father when you’re just like him in every way. You need to… [Read more]

Intelligent men have time after time repeated the fact that being a woman must be hard. Of course it is. There is no doubt, and when i look at men, they have their own set of trials and tribulations but the emotional burden a woman carries for life is true insanity. Let me explain: From childhood all a girl is conditioned to do is to look pretty. She must look pretty (and feminine) so that everyone can fawn over her and like her. She is conditioned to forego rough games and to make friends with other girls. Then she  grows up and everyone is on her case: “Don’t sleep with a guy. You’ll end up pregnant.” “Don’t sleep with a man, you’ll end up hurt.” “Don’t sleep with a man because the moon will fall out of the sky!” Is it any wonder that a LOT of young girls have no idea how to conduct… [Read more]

A few times I have been blindsided by a woman giving me a compliment and having to fight my male assumptions to accept it and move on without playing myself. It took a long time of receiving compliments, assuming them to be flirting, returning the flirt and getting shot down for doing so, to get to this point of nonchalance. I’ve learned that women may flirt, but their version and our version are very different and it’s easy to misread their intent or overshoot your possibilities. Intelligent Reality vs P.Brain Lusting As a man we have 2 ways of thinking that can assist or negate our ability to co-exist properly with women. When you meet a woman and she breaks pattern to do things like: buy you a drink compliment you grab you on the ass grab your package We get excited, we freeze – confused, wondering why she would do such a thing, ego… [Read more]

We all know there is a plethora of things that women may like about men that they cannot do without. Most of the characteristics on this list are according to their personal likes and dislikes, so it’s hard to come up with a list of general things that women would look for in a man. However, when it comes to things that we do not want in a man, there are certain turn offs that most women count as a “minus” to your total package.  Behold the Top Ten list of women’s turn offs. 1. A Jacked Up Grill There are several men in this world who look much better before they speak. They usually know who they are, too. You know, that man who hardly smiles with his mouth open and when forced into laughter he visibly tries to keep his mouth closed.  He could have a great personality and an awesome body, but… [Read more]