Grenades are dangerous and can ruin your day at the most unexpected times. For this, I try to avoid them as much as possible… I may motion the hawte over, strategize an approach when the grenade goes to the bar, or go full on stealth and get close to the hawte to start my approach while the grenade is distracted. These things I have tried in the past and somehow it would blow up in my face leaving me annoyed, and at times embarrassed by the grenade after she detonates.
Knowing this to be a real dilemma for men in the dating world, I cornered a few experts on “game” and pulled their coats on dealing with grenades when flying solo.
Strategy – Embrace The Grenade, Get Her Blessing
B.Scott: I would at least make eye contact with all 3 and find a way to include the grenade in the convo….such as “how long have you two been friends” etc.
B.Trimmings: Well in that case what you may have to do since your solo is buy a drink for the group if your really feeling the target. it pacifies the Grenade and occupies here, and you get good will from the group. It could lead to a wasted investment, but the Grenade won’t be sabatoging you either. Then while you are waiting on the drinks to be made you can talk to the target you want, and close the deal. Don’t linger too long though, they are there to have fun with their girls so you can burn up that good will at the same time.
M.Garrard: One time I buttered up the grenade, but the target wasn’t feeling me. I told the grenade how much I was feeling her friend and she lobbied for me lol.
M.Glover: my best approaches have been on the dance floor – dance now, talk later – Yeah, my best ones were like that, you dance with them and build a rapport throughout the night then get the number before she leaves the club.
Warning – Some Women Actively Use The Grenade
Many men assume that the woman they are wanting to talk with is an innocent int he grenade business. This isn’t always the case being that a lot of women bring along a grenade to play interference when wolves come down from the hills to hunt.
B.Trimmings: I have had some talk to me with the grenade hating. They use the grenade on guys they don’t like, some chicks may like your look but once you open your mouth it’s like instant turnoff.
Conclusion and Final Advice
Despite your hate and disgust at the grenades that sit on your future lover’s hips, you must learn to swallow your pride and engage the weapon when solo. Get the grenade into the conversation, compliment her lightly and stay focused on the hawte that you have first marked. When you leave, the grenade should be saying “he was nice, ooooh girl he likes you!”, you don’t want her to say “these mothaf-ckas just come all up in here trying to get with us. Blah, blah. blah”.
It’s one strategy in the great hunt, but practitioners of the art stand by it’s success. Engage the beast, get her to calm down and then seduce her master right under her nose. Now that’s one helluva strategy if I may say so myself!See some words or phrases that you don't understand? Check out The Dragon's Lexicon.