Jan 18

There are a lot of men out there who will sleep with anything.  Everyone has their own preferences, but there are many cases where a guy just wants to get some.  A lot of times they don’t care from whom, and this is where the problem lies. By lowering your standards people will talk, and word will get around that you will jump on anything that moves.  There are several reasons that you don’t want to be the person people are talking about.

Building and maintaining a good reputation is one of the prime concerns for a man of worth, and anything that can have a detrimental effect on this can easily hinder his future actions and plans. If you start slipping and begin to entertain a certain “type” that isn’t up to your standards, word will get around.

Lowering your requirements for the sake of a roll in the hay is something that desperate, lonely men do, and if you find yourself in that position, you can hardly consider yourself worthy of being called a “catch” by the opposite sex.

It’s all about keeping up appearances.

So you just left a one night stand, but you are not feeling all that great about the experience.  You didn’t really have your pick of the crowd that night and in the end, it felt more like a disappointment than a success. Scoring with the hottest, most sought-after women can give you an ego boost that lasts for weeks, and this directly feeds your motivation and desire to adhere to the highest of standards. When you’re stuck with the backup chick that is waiting by the phone for you to call her, something is off.

It’s easy right?  The backup chick is always there, waiting on you, but you are not all that attracted to her physically.  The problem with this is it becomes too easy; you begin to think that you don’t need the better-quality woman. You start to entertain the damaging theory that says, “Quantity over quality”.  It will eventually stunt your ability to conquer the best of the best, and one day, you will turn around and realize that your level of fulfillment has fallen drastically.

You’re a high-class individual, and while any good ladies’ man prides himself on adaptation, certain girls are simply better suited to your lifestyle. They may have higher expectations than the drunk regular you picked up in the bar, but at the same time, they will appreciate the finer things in life. This means that their image of you is in your favor, also the more you associate with a woman of this caliber, the more you will become involved with that circle of society.

Many people may disagree, and feel that you can walk the thin line between being high class and messing around with people who have lower standards.  But if you stay there too much, the existence of a floor to your standards will disappear, and you may find yourself unable to get the higher class person you associated with before.

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  • Morsa

    Same thing applies to women I guess