On many articles written here I have mentioned the aspect of rejection bumps and getting used to the word “NO”. Easier said than done for you tender hearts, I know, but it’s important. The way that most players earn their stripes to becoming ladies men is the same way people at a call center get better at their jobs.
In a call center you try your best to be cordial, stay professional and not lose your cool through all the “get lost” and ” lose my number you jackass” that you receive on a daily basis. It’s a hazing that usually results in a lack of care for the insults as you get seasoned into the job and master it. You begin to notice patterns, you learn to spot a weakness in their defense and before long you’re getting ace numbers.
Just like a call center employee you have to step to girls and take the rejection like a man. With every rejection your wounded resolve will strengthen and before long you will have a nice collection of prospects that you can call for a date, to chat and the occassional booty call. You may have to go throught 20 women telling you to piss off before you meet your future girlfriend but trust me, she will be worth the effort since you would have not met her otherwise.
Do not take it personally, even if a woman is a complete bitch to you. Just dust off your shoulder and move on to the next one. I personally did this successfully back in my hardcore dating days and I use to do it inside of the clubs when looking for numbers from several women. This somewhat juvenile tactic used to work because out of the 12 numbers or so 2 of them would be the genuine article. What it did for me however was to give me a steel resolve at anytime to walk up and see what’s going on with a woman that I admire. That is playing the law of averages, it works, it builds character and it will make you into a wolfman.
Here’s some musical motivation as you run down the line of women…