While to more intelligent women the title of this article seems like common sense, it will surprise you to know that many women actually believe that men lack feelings. Recently a popular blog I follow ran a poll asking its female readers whether or not they believed that men had feelings and emotions. When the results came back, it was heavily in favor of us lacking.
The fact that women believe that we have no feelings explains alot about the manner in which we are treated on dates, in relationships and in everyday life. A woman will disrespect you on a date and keep the conversation coming right after without even missing a breath. A woman thinks that she gets a pass to do foul things to a man and have it be forgiven when she tries to get back with him after the split, all because she believes that he will get over it. A man can hold a grudge as hardcore as any woman. Hard grudges come about because of feelings. If you have done something to us that is an unforgivable offense then we have every right to consider you a poisonous, disgusting animal that we will never ever give the time of day again. Hell, it happens all the time.
Real men aren’t controlled or influenced solely by vagina.
Just being straight up here, vagina may be a wonderful thing but it is readily accessible in many different ways outside of you, so get over yourself. If you honestly think that all men are animals that look for only sex in the relationship then you’re in for a rude awakening if you deal with a real dude. A good example of women over thinking their position with a man is in the popular video game argument. Let’s do an example date between idealistic “pussy power” girl and average older man:
Scenario: These two met over an online dating source and are on their second date where the woman is driving the conversation. The woman is cute and the man is established, she is really into him and he’s trying to figure out whether she’s a winner or a dumb bird (this example is real).
Woman: blah, blah my last boyfriend played video games and it drove me crazy.
Man: I play video games.
Woman: I don’t see how any adult could play video games that is so childish.
Man: Well you’re entitled to your opinion but I have always video games just like many people my age and older.
Woman: Well games are for kids and I’m disappointed that someone like you would play them.
Man: (in his mind has conceded that the chick is an
idiotic idealistic bird, not even worthy of his time. Silently deletes her number)
Woman: (thinks to herself that dude is still into her because of her looks. Maybe she can help him “grow up”. Doesn’t realize that she has offended him and is now his enemy.)
The above scenario is one way of showing how women will rattle on without thought to pissing guys off. To be honest most times it will be dealt with as a passive aggressive slight instead of him going “well your calling me childish is offensive and a sign that you are a pushy, idealistic bird who won’t see me again. Wanna talk childish? How about the fact that your net worth is irrepairable due to your habit of purchasing every shoe on the planet?” No you won’t get that from us because it’s drama, you hurt our ego and we will write you off and move it along.
Sometimes when I am out eating and I get a chance to sit by a newly dating couple and listen in on the conversation it is hilarious to spot the exact time when the man has mentally written off the woman after she says something obviously offensive. At another time you hear women lament the fact that the ex-boyfriend doesn’t even call them anymore after she did something foul to him. Men have emotions and men have ego, which combined makes for a more damaging result from rejection and offensive speech than it does for someone (read women) that expresses their feelings outwardly.
Men having feelings is the reason why the guy that you love is emotionally unavailable due to having been crushed a few times in his past. Men having feelings is the cause for that wolf being able to sleep with 20 women without thinking about it and detaching himself mentally because a woman he loved crushed his feelings in the past. For every woman that hurts a man unjustly there will be 100 more women made to suffer for it. The only way around it is to acknowledge a man’s empathy, heart and humanity. If you think that we are robots then we will not convince you otherwise and you will be run through and cast aside as another selfish bird brain.
So don’t get caught up in the lie about the potency of “pussy power” and stupid men. Chances are you will run into someone that’s above all that and will hate you for it. We have feelings and many of us will be damned if we let you toy with them. Show a man that you care for him as much as he cares for you (in his own way) by keeping things respectful and he will seat you in his carriage of love and protection and announce it to the world.
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