One night I was with this beauty on our 4th session of the horizontal mambo and things were really beginning to heat up. It was college, we were horny & experimental (isn’t that what college is all about) and I wanted to show her my talents.
Going at it the way an 18 yr old with an agenda does, this girl raises up out of her cowgirl and straight hit me with a stream of golden you-know-what. Pause! The hell just happened?
It happened so quick that I didn’t know what to do… should I channel my inner Mr. Marcus and continue to beat the dust off of “that thing” or do I go Bugsy Siegel and throw her off of me like “what’s the matter with you!?”
I won’t say which way I went with that one but the two extremes I considered are not the way to deal with something that you are not comfortable with doing in the bedroom… if you want a chance at something else freaky that-is.
The Proper Way To Turn Down Freaky Sex
The worst thing you can do to a sexual partner that goes too far is to shame him/her for it. I am being serious, it will land you in a zone of “boring” because they will assume that everything is off the table for you.
In the above example, if I wanted to be a freak I would have to be a big man and withhold my feelings in order to talk to her about it a little later. Something along the lines of “I know we were caught up in the moment but warn me next time girl, that’s not really my thing”. No harm, no foul… “what else you got locked away in that naughty mind of yours?” – you see what I did there? It let her know I was down either way.
The Proper Way To Get Your Freak On
Dare to step outside the box of missionary sex on a bed of roses? The first thing you may want to do is to bring up your fetish in conversation and gauge how your partner reacts to it.
You porn watching men that want to knock on your lady’s backdoor can easily feel her out by watching one of those movies with her. Put a Katja Kassin movie in and measure her reaction; I’m telling you, women who are not about that whatsoever will be extremely verbal about it.
If the opposition isn’t stated and even better, if she or he seems down for whatever it is that you’re into – then by all means give it a whirl.
I may have scarred you with my story but I’d like to hear from you readers. Have you ever been freaked to the point of being disgusted or blown away? Please do share and let’s keep it open-minded, you never know who you might offend.See some words or phrases that you don't understand? Check out The Dragon's Lexicon.