There are many insecure men, countless actually and while they may not come off that way on the surface, in reality they are scared to death.
What Makes A Man Insecure
The quick answer to this question is society. The same problems that plague women, plague men just the same. Men feel that if they aren’t the richest, most handsome baller in the world, women will not want them. If they find a woman that loves them, it makes them worry that she won’t stick around.
There is no cure for a man’s insecurity, he has to cross that bridge of confidence on his own. If a woman is with a man like this she will have many nights of consoling him, telling him she isn’t going anywhere and dealing with his jealous overreactions.
A Man Shouldn’t Compare Himself To His Woman
If you’re a confident man then you don’t add up what you have in order to determine whether you can date a dime or not. Many friends of mine think that to get a dime you have to be rich, good looking and have a 12 inch penis. This is stupid. A woman will stay with you just because you make her laugh, or you’re the one good guy she found after 100 jerks. Pull your pants up my man, she’s with YOU!
Some guys will do the craziest things to overcome this insecurity. They’ll date strippers, escorts, criminals, just so they have the moral high ground in case she ever questions his worth. It is that serious and it is pretty sad. Men, you shouldn’t worry about what you have to offer, if it’s bothering you then show that beautiful bird of yours how happy you are to have her – in the bedroom. BEAT IT UP!
An insecure man will happily bust his ass to earn tons of money all in the pursuit of a Kristen Bell clone warming up to him. He doesn’t care that this activity is considered low, he doesn’t take the time to see that it’s the most sexist of opinions. He believes that pretty girls want pretty shiny things. That is all he knows.
Guys like this normally get a rude awakening when a broke wolf moves in to take his girl without issue. He gets his heart broken because the money never bought him a personality or a real conscience. The broke wolf is able to give the woman everything that the rich nerd lacked. His insecurity leads to him being hurt again!
Some Help For The Insecure Man
If you have read this and you realize that you’re guilty of the mentality and habits of an insecure man you have to know that you’re losing. Life is a game that favors those with the right knowledge and attitude, not those who have all the money and good looks.
You are going to have to remove your looks and assets from the mirror of scrutiny, embrace yourself and really take it to heart that you are the man and no-one can tell you otherwise. When you have that kind of presence women will take notice and even if you don’t feel like you’re “in her league” you will appreciate the fact that she chose you.See some words or phrases that you don't understand? Check out The Dragon's Lexicon.