Ever wonder if men treat beautiful women any different than a cute chick when dating? Well the answer to that would be yes and it is something that many men will never admit. Many guys will feign confidence and doing things for themselves but there is nothing like the feeling of being out with a beautiful woman as every guy in the building looks on with what you assume is envy. It’s a machismo thing that many women will never understand but if a man is on a date with a beauty, he will constantly check the room to make sure that the other guys are noticing. Mix in another couple with an equally or more beautiful woman and he’ll chill out but don’t let him think that he is with the best looking woman in there – his head will be the size of the moon.
What’s pathetic about this exercise in competition—because that is what it is—is that many seasoned guys will know it’s a date and that the guy hasn’t had sex with the woman as of yet.
Why is this a big deal?
Well because guys know that once the deed has been committed a few times, the whole “I’m with the baddest bitch in here” mentality will sober and the guy will be looking at his girl instead of other guys who may or may not be checking her out. This is why you will find that many men will go out, play the friend, or even sit next to a beautiful woman in hopes of onlookers assuming that he is with her.
So make no mistake you beautiful birds of the world, you are a trophy whether you like it or not – even when you aren’t even with the guy. Seriously. It doesn’t matter that you are a brilliant physician, a great scholar, or a killer conversationalist who knows all the NFL teams and 90’s Hip Hop gods. Look like an actress or a top model and you will find that many of your dates will be pitching for props from all of the men stealing looks at you and wondering. I know it’s sad… we’re not proud of it.
Message to the men
We (the older and wiser) know what it looks like after a man has truly been with a woman. There’s no point in pretending that a beautiful woman is your girlfriend or that you are knocking that out every night until the cows come home… we know. See the mannerisms your girl has, the way you act around her (cautious, careful, with a dash of trying-too-hard) speaks volumes on your sex life with that beautiful woman. Not to mention the fact that you are trying too hard to see who else is checking her out. Stop it.
I find it funny that we take part in this futile exercise of ego-inflation as men but when I see it, the scene never ceases to amuse me. See my beautiful readers—who may or may not have noticed that this was going on—you can do no wrong with a guy on a first date if he’s worshiping you. If you have any question as to whether or not it’s all about you, just pay attention to him and try to see if he’s looking around for other men’s approval.