There seems to be this ongoing concern amongst women of our time that the standard of giving up sex within a 3-week period is making it hard to hold us men to a relationship. This can be very true on the surface but the thing you must understand is that sex is an activity to men, it isn’t emotional, special or complicated. For us men, sex is something you do to feel macho, sexy and on top of the world. It is a drug of choice with the only side-effects being STDs and children. This does not mean you can no longer hook us with sex, it just means that having us wait is an old and tired method that will have you wondering why your calls aren’t being returned. Being that as it may, if you want to hook a guy, you have to think outside the “box”. Although it may seem otherwise, most of us guys aren’t jerks. Most guys you run into are happy to be getting some tail,... [Read more]

Say what you will about Wyclef Jean, his actions in calming the citizens of Port-au-Prince after being denied his candidacy for president of Haiti is worthy of accolades. Many of us were impressed by Wyclef’s bid for the position after knowing his lengthy dedication to being an ambassador for Haiti and spending his own money, time and resources for the betterment of it’s people. If this is new to you readers then I would urge you to do some research into his dedication outside of his career as a multi-talented musician, rapper and founder of The Fugees. Long story short, if there was someone to be a likely candidate as president of Haiti, it would be Wyclef. What exactly happened? After receiving multiple death threats from Haitians opposed to his running for President, Wyclef Jean hid out silently in Port-au-Prince. In support of their beloved Wyclef, the people of Port-au-Prince... [Read more]

Like most popular North Africans in history, Hannibal’s race has been debated and questioned by modern day historians with their own agendas. While this is a disgraceful and disappointing argument for any historical figure (throw in Cleopatra VII with the lot) we will not dishonor today’s badass with such conjecture. Actor Vin Diesel has a movie in the works of Hannibal where he himself (of mixed heritage) will be playing the warlord. Vin is as much a fan of Hannibal as I am and in the way that fans put their hearts into scripts, I am hoping for accuracy as well as a strong stance by Vin as it will be one of the only historical movies to show the glorious city of Rome being sacked by dark-skinned invaders (gasp will it even get a green light?) When people mention Hannibal we immediately think of elephants and revenge, this is true for good reason, the man was a badass and his... [Read more]

Over the past decade or so, tattoos have become mainstream to say the least. Our culture has finally advanced to a point where anyone can get ink, not just inmates and sailors. Your mother will still hate it, but overall you probably aren’t going to be browbeat for your body art by society. Hell it’s so acceptable now TV is flooded with tattoo reality shows: Miami Ink, Inked, Tattoo Wars, LA Ink… Pretty much anyone and everyone is getting some kind of tattoo of all sorts of things. PLEASE consider a few things before you get a tattoo of your own. First thing’s first: making the choice. I don’t mean making the choice to get one or not – either you get one or you don’t. The critical choice is subject matter. Tattoos are a very personal matter, and I would be wrong to try and tell people they’re doing it wrong, but there’s some things you may want to consider. In... [Read more]

Lots of people have asked me why it is that I model when I am Muslim. Most are confused about my religion and are surprised to learn that I promote my face for money. I have had numerous threats made against me and vicious,  insulting remarks that have all led to my success today. Islam encourages women to fend for ourselves, to be educated and to inspire knowledge within others. It is one of the fairest religions in the world, tarnished by a few who shouldn’t even belong to this validity. It is a shame that many see modeling as a disrespectful job and I have “lost” many people that I once knew because they assumed that I sell my body for money. No. That is PROSTITUTION. I do NOT sell my body to men in exchange for gifts or cold cash. I model. And modeling is wearing a garment or donning accessories that are then photographed either for magazines or campaigns.... [Read more]

Editor’s Note: I am always looking for awesome writers to make me laugh out loud or nod in agreement throughout their blogs. I tend to run into a lot of garbage in my trolling of the web but once in awhile I stumble upon gold. UndressingHER.com is a blog about Lust, Love and Life, the big three. The posts are candid, funny and very realistic in terms of The Undresser and his quest for strange in the city of Michigan. One particular post that really stuck out to me was on women and their immature Cell Phone habits: I don’t call men, so I don’t care about what they do on their phones. This is strictly to the ladies, about the ladies, and for the ladies. Preferably those 21 and up; heck, let’s say 25 and up. There are some things that adult women do with their cell phones that makes me question their maturity and professionalism. These are the same women that often tell me to... [Read more]

Calling a professional escort a friend is a dangerous thing to do. I’m not talking about the stigmata of “birds of a feather flock together” or anything like that. I’m talking dangerous in a sense that the world of sex, drugs and money can take an educated woman and make her a pawn in a game that only leads her life downhill.   You may be fascinated with the fact that these women are so easily able to show their bodies with no remorse or be touched by random men, but your curiosity may be the ammo she needs to pimp you out to her world.  Yes, I said pimp you out. Take you while you are broken, give you the things that you think you long for, show you that life can be (financially) better, all while she sits back and counts her change.  If you find yourself in a vulnerable place in life where it seems as if you would try anything to change your position, beware of the signs of... [Read more]

Origami Sushi 3647 W Hillsborough Ave Tampa, FL 33614 origamisushitampa.com This small restaurant presents just the right mixture of authentic Japanese cuisine and American style dining.  There is ample seating along the windows and dining room, and a full bar with flat screen televisions that runs across the length of the dining room. Great for a date night, or just being out with friends or family, Origami is a great place to frequent.  The staff is friendly, the bar is stocked, and the food is worth the wait. I love the menu at Origami as it has pictures of every dish they serve, so there is no guess work in what your food will look like or what ingredients will be included. I ordered the “Scorched Earth”, a cooked roll with salmon and asparagus.  The kicker is the assortment of fish and seafood in a spicy mayonnaise on top, flame cooked sort of like how a crème brulee is prepared.... [Read more]

Ambition: The desire and motivation to succeed. It’s a beautiful word. Everyone considers themselves to be ambitious but very few actually are. It’s a word used at school to get into College, then into a University and after “Higher Education” – to land oneself a (preferably) graduate job. Okay, so a person goes through that and after graduating with a fabulous degree ends up in a menial job. The relevance of the degree is lost or wasn’t worth doing in the first place. Imaginations run wild most times yet I’ve noticed one thing among many people. A lack of ambition. Ambition encompasses drive, determination, willpower and motivation. A bit like a 4 in 1 Shampoo (I’m hoping for this note’s sake-it exists!). It is what will carry a person to reach a goal that has been set and visualized by the mind’s eye. People often have the end... [Read more]