Jul 30

Just gonna leave this here because she has an awesome afro, naughty eyes, and well… because she’s perfect. Enjoy Janelle Monae’s signature song from her latest album of the same name: Electric Lady.  

Jul 29

Men have been pounding on women in relationships since…well forever? We are physically bigger, stronger, and we are bred to fight–despite what the well-behaved men blogs will tell you. This makes us extremely scary. Not just to women, but to other men as well. Have you ever been to jail or seen an episode of Lockup? A savage with no self-control and/or a temper can be a nightmare to anyone around them, let alone a weaker person trapped inside a car or house with them. On the flip-side, a woman that knows how powerless a battered man feels in our society (where we are told that we are bigger, stronger, and bred to be warriors), and takes advantage of him by being the abuser is just as frightening to have as a family member. To make light of any of this is a well known… [Read more]

Jul 21

It seems that at times when talking to women about what we men consider sexy, I get the feedback that we like one particular type of woman. Knowing men whose tastes are extremely varied, I find it odd that women think that there is really one make and model that can attract all men. Unintentionally Sexy Women You can never box men in on our tastes in women. There are a host of women that are viewed as sevens on the ten point scale that attract men who consider them to be dime pieces (tens). Women will see these supposedly average-looking women being doted on by men and wonder what the hell it is they see in her. A man will even keep a woman as his secret crush, because if she’s an unconventional beauty, he cannot imagine that his friends will cosign on her. Sometimes a woman isn’t even trying to be… [Read more]

Jul 14

You’ve heard it before, hell every male has heard it before, but in practice you may have tried it and failed miserably. How do you show confidence without coming off as a total douche to the opposite sex? Well if you have to ask, chances are you haven’t been doing well in this department.  Confidence is second nature to a truly confident person,  it is shown in his walk, his talk and the way he performs in every day life. So the question really should be, “how do I become confident?” Here are a few tips to help you along the path: Do not evaluate yourself through the eyes of others When you look to others to give you confirmation in your life, you end up missing out on personal choices that could have made you happy. It will also allow you to become motivated by mediocrity. If… [Read more]

Jul 10

I like Longhorn Steakhouse… at least, I like the one we’ve frequented for lunch on many occasion, but I never thought that the restaurant would appeal to me on such a personal level! As we all know, black folks in America have had a long history of devouring in tandem, large portions of fried chicken and watermelon (being snarky here so don’t go calling the drop squad on me). It’s been a running joke since forever, but I bet you thought it died down with our modern, progressive, anti-racism climate and all. Not for a certain person making the menu though–who I imagine looks very much like Uncle Ruckus from Adult Swim’s The Boondocks. Longhorn seems to be attempting to slip in just one more coon joke on us, and only those with a long memory (or a sick sense of humor like yours truly) would catch it! Take a… [Read more]

Jul 10

“Never let the game get ahead of you, get a better view” – Snoop So, I have a story for you and it is one that I think you can identify with because it has affected all of us in one facet of life or the other. You all have been there and with the facade of life being “fair” many of us run around in circles only to end up feeling disappointed. We listen to the people who got lucky–as they dole out advice from a place of privilege–and we think that they have it all figured out, so we copy them. Sound familiar? Well let’s get into the story. A guy (lets call him Ronnie) walks into a casino and within a few minutes, he hears one of the patrons screaming because she hit the progressive on a slot machine. A man to his left claps his… [Read more]

Jul 02

The orgasm… a woman’s joy and a man’s seal of approval. Isn’t it funny how we men make the orgasm more about us than it is about her? Keep it on the low though… she still thinks you care. But i’m just a writer with an opinion, we should probably hear what an expert has to say about it. Lets’ see what Dr. Lehmiller of Sex and Psychology has to say about why the female orgasm exists: Women have the potential to become pregnant whether or not they reach orgasm during vaginal intercourse. This observation has generated a long-standing scientific debate about why women have orgasms in the first place. If the female orgasm is not essential for reproduction, then what purpose does it serve? Although scientists do not yet agree on the answer, a number of interesting theories have been offered. Some have argued… [Read more]

Jul 01
man with woman

“I promise you that this is not about cat calls” Many of us have been guilty of staying in a woman’s face even when we know that she isn’t going to be open to any of our advances. It’s a nervous tick that puts us at the mercy of a woman for fear of seeming rude, or mean for our actions. But is it rude, or “mean” to politely break a conversation to attend to something else? Men will show up late to work, miss a bus, or any number of things just because a pretty girl was holding court on a subject he could care less about. It’s true–pretty women are magnets to unsure men–and a man doesn’t have to be shy to be guilty of this. Some men are jerks and will cut a woman off just because there is some small pleasure in having the… [Read more]