One of the most common things that guys tend to do when they see an irresistibly beautiful woman or an ultra-hot dime piece is to ogle her like a starving dog and allow invisible nails to plant them to the ground.
On the flip side you may have a pack of lames who make a game out of it in order to fire themselves up – each taking turns at approaching the woman with weak lines. This is even worse than saying or doing nothing as it drives a woman to become hostile instead of aloof at your distance admiration.
When I was a younger man I would defeat the long-distance stare by forcing my legs to put me into a situation that my mouth had to get out of. What I mean by this is that when I saw a beautiful woman – that I wanted – I would approach her.
Did I get rejected? Yes, quite a bit but it built my character to be fearless in the face of rejection. Before long I could approach, engage, and talk to women without fear. If she wasn’t down for the program it was okay because there were plenty more to try my hand at.
Do this the next time you are out and about and see a beautiful woman – scan the room for random guys and look at what is going on. Chances are you will find a room full of people checking her out but none of them will talk to her. There’s an advantage to this for you if things continue in that vein… you can be the difference-maker… go, get her name and ask her to dance.
Many guys hold on to this hopeless assumption that cute girls will send back obvious signals that they want to be approached… not all the time guys. Hell I would go out on a limb and say that it barely ever happens. It’s up to you to convince that shy cutie that you’re worth the attention.
Tell you what you have a ton of things working against you when you approach but at least you rolled the dice. Stand their admiring women and you will become one of the furniture to them. Force them to say no and stop allowing your eyes to deify hot women.
It’s as simple as that when it comes to game… Nike! Just do it.See some words or phrases that you don't understand? Check out The Dragon's Lexicon.