May 23


Have you ever dated someone who treated you like garbage, disrespected you or took advantage of your goodness? Well for those who have it probably becomes a guilty pleasure to see life’s karma destroy their lives while you continue to be rewarded for them being out of your life. Sometimes it’s a situation where you were the good battery that fueled their life and they cheated on you, you split, and now their life is in shambles.

It will feel extremely guilty or evil to relish in the fact that you were the one that got away. You scan their old business website to see that it’s down, you notice that they have disappeared and then one day you see a picture and they are out of shape, old, or pregnant. No matter who you are there is a certain pleasure in this isn’t there? You naughty, little, evil Sith Lord you.

So with this in mind you should know that the best cure for someone screwing you over in a relationship is to file them away as a bad experience and live out your life to the fullest. Don’t go searching for your ex to see if you have the over in the following chapters but “do you” in terms of moving on, moving past it and succeeding in life.

Sever the Ties And Keep It Moving

The only time the sight of a jilted lover failing will be okay to rejoice in is if you happen upon the discovery by chance. If you stalk them to confirm that you are winning then that makes you into something else altogether and more than likely to the eye in the sky you are in fact the loser.

happy-businessmanWe’ve seen and heard it before, people keeping exes on Facebook, stalking their photos to make sure that their new girlfriend isn’t prettier or younger. Even worse you have those who will call and jeer someone from the past just to make sure that they know that they are doing better. This is not winning folks, winning is doing your thing and leaving that bad experience in the wind.

I’m not a strong believer in forgive and forget so the advice on forgiving the ex and keeping them in your life will not come from me. I believe in mending wounds, getting up, dusting yourself off, and walking off into the sunset. If you happen across your ex and they are in a bad place then smile at the karma and keep it moving.

But at the end of the day it will always do you well to move on, do better, and not let a relationship scar you for life. If you are a sweetheart then that good man in your future deserves the good girl who you were when that douchebag burnt you. If you are a good dude then you need to put away the wolf games when you meet a chick that can truly hold you down.

Go forth and conquer, and if they see your photo on social media and see that you are a champion then let them drown in their tears. Just don’t go looking for it, be above it, transcend, and if you do come across them on the road of life, laugh at the irony that they screwed you over only to fail in the end.

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