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Mar 07

As men we have the unfortunate curse of having extremely fragile egos where women are concerned. We don’t want to hear that we were settled on, lucky to have her, or even worse the current member in a long list of clones that occupied your woman’s “type”. So to keep your sanity I warn you men reading to probe ever so lightly where an ex is concerned because you may not like what you will find out. Is Stalking A Lover’s Ex A Manly Trait? Lots of women do this thing where they go digging in your archives to look up women of the past with whom you were in love with at one point. The goal of this behavior starts out as mere curiosity but quickly descends into this obsession to find out who she was, why she was prettier, and how in love you were with her…. [Read more]

May 30
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Many women get involved romantically with men and expect them to take on the role of the boyfriend and husband that they have concocted in their mind. This shadow avatar of a boyfriend (let’s call him Ben) is a Frankenstein creature, built from soap operas, Romance Comedies, her father, brothers, and boyfriends of the past. He is attentive when she’s in the mood for him, he politely nudges her for sex often, and his entire life is changed for her; his every waking moment being a struggle to get as much time with her as possible. Ben had a high position in his company and his aspirations for wealth led him to being an efficient, smart, working machine. Long hours yield long money and it allowed him to take her out on dates to the fanciest of restaurants in the most exclusive locations. But when… [Read more]

Apr 15

It’s a new year and whether you make New Year’s resolutions or not, you should ditch bad habits regardless.  Some of those bad habits pertain to your dating life, and people have been using the same “rules” when they meet someone new for years.  Well some of those rules are old and not valid anymore, and you can easily argue that some were never valid.  Dating evolves just like everything else in this world, and you need to ditch these old rules and try something different. 1. Wait for the guy to call you Women seem to think that they should wait for a guy to call them because they don’t want to look “too” interested in him.  Well calling someone you just met is normal, and you don’t have to profess your love for the guy when you call him.  Just having a nice,… [Read more]

Feb 18

Kids can be great bonuses to meeting someone new and they can also be nightmares just as easily. When a man gets older he realizes that the chance of meeting a childless woman thins dramatically and the question of “how” may come to his mind in dealing with a child that isn’t his. The single parent dilemma is felt the hardest by the children, and as a product of such a household I am lucky enough to have this insight in my dating life. Many guys just don’t know how to deal with a child that isn’t theirs and it becomes immediately evident to the child, even when the mom is disillusioned into thinking that the guy is perfect. Advice to The Single Mothers Ask your Teen: If you have a teenager it is very important that you get their approval after an introduction or… [Read more]

Oct 29

I’ve been meaning to write this article for some time but held off on it due to my not wanting to step on toes etc. I have a married friend who has not spent any time in prison, has a beautiful family and has no street gang or organized crime affiliation. Yet without hesitation I can say he is the most “gangster” individual I know. How is this? Well the term originated with organized crime, it was something that outsiders would call the wiseguys and the clubs of fellas that were doing their gang thing on the streets back in the day. As time passed and Hollywood became involved, the dangerous wiseguy of the slums became idealized into a street knight who chooses illicit ventures to profit while sticking to a harsh code of discipline. When musicians started claiming to be gangsters, they would reference… [Read more]