Results For "desperation"
Jan 22

There is a broad line between stalking and courting. Stalking cannot be mistaken as anything else whereas courtship is still up for debate on it’s definition in today’s world. Many men that stalk would have you believe that they are “courting” but let us put a full stop on that right now. When it comes to talking up a woman you have to learn to be a knife, your surface being smooth and refined, your edge being absolutely deadly.  While stalking a chick may yield firm results from a woman who wants to be heavily chased, most women will want to kill you. If you want to get over your infatuation, make sure you do it in a healthy way. It saddens me to see guys having restraining orders slapped against them or women having to purchase handguns because some fool crossed the line. Lust like… [Read more]

Mar 15

Most people never set out to find and fall into a relationship for the wrong reasons, but it’s an unfortunately common process. Here are five of the wrong reasons to get involved in a relationship: #1: You Can’t Stand the Thought of Being Alone A lot of people prefer being miserable in a relationship than being single because “at least they are not alone”.  When you fear being alone, you’re much more likely to make bad choices and end up getting involved with and staying in bad relationships because it distracts you from feeling lonely. #2: You’re Getting Old and the Clock is Running Out A relationship should not be based on two people getting together because time is running out. Many women feel that 40 is the age where you should no longer have children because there is a higher risk of birth defects. … [Read more]

Nov 12
black man cheating with white woman

There seems to be this lazy assumption by more than a few people that every man will eventually cheat on his woman in one way or another in his life. This assertion is not only approved of by many males but actually championed and echoed whenever the question is asked. It is very easy for men and women to assume that men will cheat based on our nature of admiring the hell out of the female body. Men love to objectify women, this doesn’t change just because an army of feminists tell us it’s wrong to do so; it is in our nature. This is why men will collect skin magazines, galleries of beauties online, and even videos. It is why college freshmen paste up images of their celeb crushes on their dorm room walls. Men love to ogle women. We do! So when a woman assumes… [Read more]

Oct 03
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“I’m currently in a situation where my significant other makes less money than I do. I’m not bothered strictly by the fact that he makes less money but more so by the fact that he readily states that he wants to work more/make more money, but isn’t willing to expend the effort required to ensure that happens. I really tried to be what a lot of men here have said they want… a ride-or-die chick – Someone to hold them down rain or shine. Five years I’ve done that. But what I have yet to see a man state is exactly where the buck stops. I’m not about trying to change someone into what I think they should be. As quite a few have pointed out, a person is going to be who they’ve always been. In my case, I didn’t understand how that would… [Read more]

Jun 30

A man’s perception of the dating game is this: Any woman can walk outside, trip, fall and land on a penis (slang translation: there are so many men desperate for women that no effort is needed by a woman to get a man). While this is crass, It does truthfully reveal how we think when it comes to women and dating. Part of the reason is because we see so many desperate “good” men settling on low value women. We’ve also seen women turn down men in our lives (that we know are good men) then complain about a lack of good men to date.   The problem with our assuming that women can have whatever they want is that it is a male’s perspective. Women in reality tend to be picky about their mates while men are quantity over quality. Give a woman a hundred guys and she will turn… [Read more]

Dec 21

“Desperation is like a cheap version of a fine scent. Everyone except you can smell it.” Well that’s what I usually say when I see a desperate girl. Desperate girls come in assorted shapes and sizes, a bit like a box of Roses or Quality Street! You never know what kind of crack case you’re gonna be dealing with unless you unwrap her. (No boys, I DID NOT say undress her). Women are like a Box of Chocolates Some chocolate wrappers LOOK amazing and make you want to devour them, some of them look average and taste amazing, there are those that no one wants that get passed around and finally you have the rare chocolate whose wrapper is nice and shiny AND it’s delicious! I’ve described the categories of women that a man will come across in his lifetime. Some girls are truly stunning,… [Read more]

Oct 07

Looking for a formula to getting lucky with women? Here’s the secret (queue drumroll) the only formula you should have going into anything with a woman is the 2-strike rule and a sense of confidence. When you use a cheat sheet from some “love expert” to gauge your chances with a woman, it is about as useful as getting your palm read by an 8 yr old. Oh so you followed the 48 Laws of Pimpology by Pimpin’ Ken and scored yourself a hot date? Well who’s to say that had you freestyled it she would have been down regardless… hmm, see and there is no way to test this premise being that every woman is a unique human being. I don’t like formulas, I think that they cause more harm than good so why go there? Really, do you think that calling a woman… [Read more]

May 13

This is probably one of the harshest situations that a woman will want to be in when it comes to matters of the heart. The guy with whom you are with has tapped out on his patience with you and seeks greener pastures in order to procure a more attractive, less naggy version of yourself. Don’t give up just yet, there may be a chance for you to save your relationship before he has the sit down with you. Find out what the issue is Sometimes us guys will want to dump a girl over what seems like the most trivial crap out there. Maybe you talk too much, maybe you’ve gained weight, maybe you say the wrong things constantly, or maybe you won’t give him enough space. The thing you want to do is to find out whether the problem is fixable or not…. [Read more]