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Men are not in trouble, the gender war is another faux problem created to mask us all from the reality of the overall human situation. If you find yourself reading articles by men and women claiming that men of today are hopeless, lost and unnecessary, please consider the source before you let their assertion upset you. Men have not been denied any privileges in the modern age, we haven’t been locked down, and we haven’t been made to relocate. What has happened is that the playing field that many women and men fought to have leveled is more than on its way to evening out. When change like this happens, much like segregation, change in laws, change in housing or hell any change whatsoever, the bigots come through in droves with their articles, one-liners and commentary of hate disguised as intelligent discourse. Lately the focus has shifted in the blogosphere from the woes of the… [Read more]

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Some of you out there are guilty of this and have been burned for it before realizing your mistake (cough) Stacey Dash. Look I don’t call women hos… outside of article titles meant to bring you good folks here to read my daily anecdotes. While no hos per se, many women have been extremely liberal with their honey pot throughout their lifetimes only to look back at their life with regret. This regret leads to a silly notion that the next guy will have to “earn” her used and abused honey pot because then he will respect her and keep her around longer than a month. Normally this leads to her well-meaning guy taking her newly proclaimed “born again virgin” status as a slight, being that she had no qualms about giving it to men in the past. Most guys will not stick around past a month after learning of this. Here’s a tip for… [Read more]

I think the most frustrating thing about being an enterprising individual or entrepreneur is the loneliness. While you may have the support of friends and loved ones, nobody understands anything unless they are doing things like you are or have done things in the past. They don’t understand what it is you do or how you make money for it, they don’t understand your obsession with the ROI (Return on Investment) and they either think you have more money than god, or that your grind shows that you have too much time on your hands. Either way, the pats on the back are there and the bragging that “you are doing something”, but at the end of the day it falls hollow because they simply cannot fathom what it is you are going through. For this it is a lonely world for any of us going through hardships or annoyances dealing with work and clients…. [Read more]

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I cannot understand the lust for clubbing and the club life – that is, well I cannot understand the wont for this as a 30-something or worse yet a 40-something. I clubbed A LOT in my twenties, and I sometimes wonder if the possibility of being burnt out can explain my attitude but I can recall one day at 25 years old, I was in a club with friends, walking around drinking, hollering at random uninterested chicks and having an enlightenment of sorts. A kind of out-of-body experience where I looked around, put the mixed drink on the bar and uttered “what the hell am I doing here? This is lame”. Have you felt this way in the Club before? Or maybe it was somewhere else, like church, your girlfriend’s house or at a family member’s place who annoys the hell out of you. Normally that utterance is made because you feel that your time… [Read more]