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As you know, I am a big backer for online dating. In this cyber age of 9 to 5 jobs, side hustles and responsibilities, it gets tough for a single guy to break routine and go fishing for booty. And who do you have pushing you to date? Your married friends (who probably got hitched young thus having zero experience in the dating field), your hen pecking mom and probably a nosy co-worker or two. Maybe you just got lonely, you start realizing that you are constantly the 5th wheel when you hangout with friends and it begins to bother you. So you try the traditional means, you hit up a loud, nasty club/bar where some drunk, loser chick either ends up wasting your time or giving you her number – or the ass if she likes  you enough (don’t you love how I say this like it’s easy). If the club fails you could… [Read more]

Anybody else ever get this message from women seeking a date? “Hi I like your complexion, I really think we need to hook up, blah, blah, blah” Well I have yet to got this one from non black women but I am willing to bet it’s on the tip of their tongues when contacting me. What’s the deal? this is a new one to me yet lately, I’ve gotten quite a few women emailing that “compliment” in the last month or so. Everytime I see this, I think “fetish” or “shallow” because seriously who would say such a thing? Some quick sex is one thing but I probably won’t take you serious when you say this. I realise that dark skinned men are some sort of fad thing for girls nowadays but this is just weird. I remember the early days of school up until college where girls were looking for the bright, near-white type. Now… [Read more]