Women and men go into relationships for different reasons, for the men it may be the prospect of getting some all the time versus sporadically, and for the women it may be a roll of the die towards marriage. It could even be vice versa, we can’t paint a broad stroke over entire genders without giving attention to the exceptions – it’s just not fair. So you get into a relationship for whatever reason and you begin to get the questions from prying friends about the status. You may be wondering yourself if you are on the train to nowhere with your sweetheart whispering soft nothings in your ear to lull you into acceptance of this. Well this is my advice to those of you who are pondering this: Remember the conversations of your first date. Many times a person will clue you in to his/her intentions when they are honest from shyness or alcohol… [Read more]

I’d like to thank Frankie, Daniel and Cadillac Collins for helping me create this guide. All being stand-up guys, gentlemen and priceless friends, I can ascertain that the tips you find here will be beneficial for anyone who has a friend that is going through the harsh reality that their wife/girlfriend has moved on. While this could be a funny write-up on what your duties as a wingman are for the newly single friend, we chose to make it a serious series of tips. Break-ups hurt men just as much as they do women, especially when the man was in love and loses her suddenly. I hope you find our guide helpful and would love to hear your stories on helping your buddies survive their newly single status. Loneliness can only be healed through fellowship The worst thing you can do as a friend is to let your damaged friend sit home and wallow in… [Read more]

I read a lot of stories from supposedly single women on how they have trouble attracting men. To men who read or hear this we are oft times bewildered as to how and why. The more experienced dater will assume its due to bitchiness, a personality trait or unapproachable behavior. While this is the cause for a lot of guys refusing to step to a woman, the fact of the matter is that a lot of women just don’t know how to show availability. What Men Look For As Safe Openings Body language is as equally important as speech. I am sure you have heard that a million times over but it is true. As a harsh example, if you try talking to someone with your arms crossed and legs in a ready position, it will come across as aggressive. An approachable woman can have a genuine smile that draws you in, if she doesn’t… [Read more]

One of the most certain ways to get an unfriendly reaction from me in any relationship is to pull a pop up spontaneously. This rule goes for family, friends and girlfriends; unless we live together, there is no reason for you to find it reasonable to show up unannounced to my door. I’ve had friends do this who found that I will not even answer the door on principle; it is a general rule that Pop Ups are not okay. Common courtesy serves that you call an individual prior to showing up at his doorstep since doing so you assume that he will be able to accommodate you. People have their own lives outside of yours so the assumption that you are welcome anytime is asinine at best. Now I know many people who consider this romantic, or spontaneously sexy but save that for your roommate or live-in boyfriend. People who live by themselves like… [Read more]

With Bioware’s hit MMORPG The Old Republic on the horizon, many of us will find ourselves subscribing and playing with hundreds of people worldwide. Sure there will be Jedi’s, Boba Fett wannabes and assassins but there will also be social exchanges, vented chat and run-ins with attractive people. Communication will range from text, to live chat, to real life meetings, depending on how close you get to other players. Of course with interaction comes attraction and from attraction comes the urge to bump uglies. One thing that I’ve always wondered was whether virtual sex was considered cheating as much as real, physical sex is. The C Word aka Erotic Role-Playing Editors Note: For you non-gamers reading “cyber” or “ERP – Erotic Role-playing” is when you use text or voice chat to play out a sexual encounter with a stranger in the game… Having played many MMORPGs and seeing my share of cyber drama on each… [Read more]

Fellas when it comes to the Strip Clubs and Strippers in general you need to know early on in your relationship how you stand with your girlfriend/wife with the trust issue. Some women trust their man and know that he has morals and self control so no questions are needed after the fact. Most women and I will reiterate for you guys here, MOST women are not gonna be feeling you on it at all, so they will be pissed, berate you with questions and give you shit whenever you attend an establishment. This is why you should find out early on about her feelings on the Strip Club, her feelings on you going to the Strip Club and whether or not you can be honest, or if you’re better off telling her enough to keep her happy and out of your face. Women Don’t Want The Truth – Just Cause They Sell It Don’t… [Read more]

Rule #21 (Men Don’t Pop Gum): Seriously if you are a guy that sits there popping gum loudly, you are being really suspect. It’s just bitch activity to pop gum as a man and there is no explanation for even doing it. Chew your damn gum and shut your mouth, save the popping for your annoying girlfriend fresh out of High School. Rule #22 (Common Courtesy): A man should never ever get in the way of another man scamming on some tail, this means no cock blocking, no whining and no barging in on your buddy while he is having sex. If you arrive at a party or establishment with a fellow male and he meets a woman that has agreed to go home with him, it is your duty to find another ride. If you share a dorm/apartment with a friend and the “Do Not Disturb” symbol has been initiated (My old roommate and… [Read more]

If you are in a relationship that has run its course and you’re wondering whether it’s a good time to turn in or not consider this. How do you feel when you go out of your way to meet your lady? Do you anticipate a good time, is it no big deal or do you dread it because of an inevitable argument or bad experience? Most men will stick around, not for fear of loneliness, but because our analytic minds tend to weigh the good versus the bad and stick it out if it lean towards good. Godd for a man could mean that while she may be a total bitch, her looks makes for great arm candy and the envy of your friends. Maybe she only emasculates you when you’re with friends but when you two are alone she’s a sweetheart. It could be a number of things which were the tables turned, a… [Read more]