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Many women leave tell-tale signs that they are just not that into you. And men very seldom pick up on these for several reasons that can be discussed in another article. This is all about helping you decipher the difference between whether she just isn’t into you and never will be, or you just happened to be that guy to break down the wall around her heart and make it your home. Settling: She’s trying to change you. This is a huge red flag of a settling chick! She has assessed your every characteristic and has come to the conclusion that you may have the potential to make her happy. This woman is good for telling her friends that you “look good on paper”, as you have all the symptoms of a perfect man – good job, mortgage, not bad looking, and head over heels for her.  There’s only one problem and that’s that there’s… [Read more]

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You Took Too Long, Let’s Just Be Friends “The professional man has time on his side, and he is not going to deviate from his plan just because he sees a pretty face.” There are only a select few times when a man and woman can be friends even when there is attraction involved – 1. You were co-workers or classmates, 2. You are his friend’s girlfriend, wife or cool ex, 3. You are his cool ex (you broke up as an agreement not out of malice), and finally 4. You are a friend’s family member. If you aren’t in this list of 4 then you cannot be my friend, most guys will 100% co-sign on this point – blank  - period. This way there are no illusions on whether I can get in those draws sometime in the near future (which is what most guys will keep you around for) and you have no… [Read more]

I’m Sorry I Messed Up, Are You Dating Anybody Right Now? The game of courtship can be a rewarding one, men earn themselves a beautiful, loving mate and women earn romance stories to brag to their girlfriends about. One of my best friends planted his wife’s engagement ring amongst the branches of the tree that they first kissed under. It is no doubt that she will tell that story forever – they just celebrated the birth of their second child, it’s a beautiful thing. The majority of my friends are seemingly happy in their marriages, so the statistics of divorce rates, alimony and child support woes that I read about daily gets balanced out just by hanging out with them. One thing I’ve noticed however is that all of them were either married out of High School or a few years after college – the younger 20s. As myself and other men of my age… [Read more]

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Hey ladies, the game has changed. Let me repeat that, the game has changed. While you were being drilled by your unhappily married momma to go get your education, a secure corporate job and a man who has done much more than you to play hunter/gatherer. The game up and changed itself into a six headed hydra that has got you all hustling backwards in this relationship thing. It’s made for some good reading as the new buzzwords of “black, woman, hair, single, anger” in no particular order has brought many a blog instant attention and success due to the reactions that come with it. For the jilted men of the past it has become a relative badge of honor to tell their friends how they dissed a woman, especially if she’s fine or accomplished. Guys who are in their 30s and can account for a heavy paycheck and assets have become the ones with… [Read more]

Although I have never used this blog to discuss shows and movies (I use another outlet for that), I cannot pass up the opportunity to commend the writers of Entourage for the episode I watched last night. It felt good to see a show that depicted a classic case of a man finally growing the balls to break out of the Dick in a Glass Jar magical spell. Some background (To explain the plight of Eric): Entourage depicts the lives of four men as they carry out their lives in Hollywood in support of Vincent Chase, a young actor who had become a star overnight and brought his friends along with him. Of the four friends, the most complicated (and socially vulnerable) character is Eric (Kevin Connolly). Eric is a smart, kind-hearted young man who is pretty much the “nice guy” complement to the other three friends who sleep with different women every week (or… [Read more]

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Many of us have been caught up with an attractive woman who would not let us “seal the deal”. She does just enough to keep you around but when you proceed farther, she shoots you down or limps away quickly. The term for this is normally called Dick in the Glass Jar Syndrome because in essence you are being trained to become an extra dick in case the one she wants does not work out. Everyone hates to be lonely and the people who suffer most from this fear are people who have been in relationships for a long time. Some people avoid it by being serial daters or serial girlfriends, you never see them alone, yet they are never with someone for a good amount of time. Now I know guys will get defensive and macho then lie that they will dodge the syndrome if they see it coming. But let’s be honest about… [Read more]