After dating many women and going through the phases of eager, to hopeful, to cynical, a man tends to get to a point where he’s heard it all, seen it all, and experienced it all. It is a kind of mental Zen where you are able to see red flags from a mile away, turn down dating offers you know will be disastrous, and pounce on the good opportunities whenever they present themselves. The following list is from the wolves that have been there 100 times over and are willing to tell you what they look for to avoid and what they know not to do. It is a good list to scan if you are in the dating game because a lot of these are mistakes that you don’t want to make and lose someone special. As a man, I will not continue dating a woman who… Just got out of a relationship, is… [Read more]

If you haven’t been on an online dating site for long then you may have made the rookie mistake of using the wrong photo for your profile. The problem with the perception that all images are good is that you miss out on a bunch of good opportunities based on having a suspect profile photo. When people flip through the many images of men and women on an online dating site, the first thing they look for is how attractive you are and then they begin to probe for red flags. The most common of these red flags are: People using someone else’s photo to fool the world People who aren’t who they say they are in the text Potentially toxic, crazy person who may end up chopping you up in the back of a car The last thing you would want to do is allude to being any of the above. The best type… [Read more]

In this new series we speak to men and women about the evil exes of their past. What we aim to get out of these interviews is some insight for you readers as to what went wrong in these situations so that hopefully you may avoid the mistakes that we have. Our first guest is Cee, he is an all-around “good guy” in the eyes of the world who was almost destroyed by the woman he met in Bible school… let’s get to it. When and where did you meet your ex?It all started in the spring of 2002. For some reason I was at a 1-year religious institute. It was sorta like a summer campground, but you go to classes and talk about Jesus all day. My 2002 self thought this would be a good thing. Anyway, I had never had a real girlfriend in my life, so everything that happened came with no… [Read more]

I came across a Gent by the name of Pete Sapper, a confidence relationship coach that tackles the root of insecurity that stems from fear in women and turns wallflowers into the powerful, confident Goddesses that they deserve to be. I truly admire his attitude after coming across plenty of BS from relationship experts who wrongly preach that most men are idiots and that this whole feminist wave is all good. I’m not one to complain as my own book The 21st Century Spartanite: The Strong Woman’s Guide To Ultimate Success is written from a liberal feminist perspective and two chapters are solely given to the RIGHT TYPE of man. I can only speak from a very subjective female perspective. High Value Women The difference between high and low valued women in the world is cultivating their own worth. I’ve often been called all types of pejorative names under the sun for standing my ground, for… [Read more]

Many people assume that prostitutes are unintelligent victims of overly smart street hustlers with a hard backhand, a 9mm handgun and a lack of empathy but the truth of the matter is that there is a method to the madness that is The Game and the art of making and breaking a prostitute. The main source of power that a pimp has over his/her product is called psychological imprisonment and I would warn that many of you judging the prostitute may be a broke day and an act of loyalty away from being one yourself. The following 7 rules are a variation of The Laws of The Game that have been used by pimps since time immortal and they are accompanied by my insights as to how your marriage or relationship could very well be along the same lines as a pimp/prostitute relationship. Sure your husband or wife may not beat you with a wire… [Read more]

The following is a list of men that women should avoid for fear of disappointment once the honeymoon period is over. The list was compiled based on the feedback I often hear from women whenever their new dream guy turned out to be a nightmare. I find that because the right questions aren’t asked initially and a man’s lifestyle, background and habits aren’t examined many women take us at face value only to feel salty about it down the road. I will say that I am not just some writer pointing fingers as I see parts of myself within this list; being a Stargazer with a little bit of Trick Baby to me has made my love-life a journey of mountains and valleys. So don’t be offended if you see yourself in there. With this in mind I hope that you find the list interesting, entertaining and somewhat educational. 10. The Wolf Aggressive, somewhat rude,… [Read more]

Have you ever made the mistake of assuming a co-worker or classmate is a friend when in actuality you were merely their “work-buddy”? It is a mistake that many people make, given the fact that the joking, stories exchanged and favors borrowed are very much like the interactions we have with our actual friends in life. While I have met a number of real friends through work and school, I always made sure to mentally separate them from the people I am cool with who aren’t truly my friends. Don’t get me wrong, while it sounds harsh on the surface, what it does is to remind me that certain expectations should not be placed on the work-buddy. In our adult lives it can become very easy to have one’s job become one’s life. You start out ambitious, ready to impress but before you know it you’re riding out the clock, gossiping about other employees and… [Read more]

I have found that a woman’s sexual enthusiasm starts at the beginning of your date as opposed to the moment you decide to get freaky. This is one of those areas where the sexes differ greatly and men make the mistake of assuming otherwise. When your old lady is getting ready for the show and she asks that retarded “how do I look” question, you have to factor in the sex you may be having after the concert. If you don’t, your comfort with her may lead you to be honest and tell her she looks a little chunky. While she may take it in stride, change her clothes and have a great time with you on the town, the entire time it may be on her mind that she isn’t that hot to you… anymore. Talk about a buzz kill, you will have forgotten that you mentioned that to her and by the end… [Read more]