Dear jump-offs, cheaters, escorts and stripper girlfriends. There will come a time when that married man with whom you’re having sex with will decide that you’re done and go back to his wife. At this time your instincts will tell you to run to the highest mountain and air his dirty laundry to the world. Don’t do it. Let me ask you a question rat girl, and think deeply on this one. How many mistresses have gained any kind of positive support, recognition or money (with the exception of baring him a keep-a-player baby) for squealing about an affair? I’ll sit over here and wait… Yaaaa ask Monica Lewinsky how being a dirty rat has worked out for her. Last time I checked she was a depressed shell of herself reeling off of the media cyclone and public scrutiny that came with her admission. How about all the blonde headed booty calls that Tiger Woods… [Read more]

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“I’m the best goddamned lay in the world.” – Virginia Hill at the Kefauver hearings 1951 When your life is as fleeting as that of a Capo in the Italian/Jewish underworld, one of the sweetest distractions is that of a woman that can rock your world. The most popular moll of the Mafia saga has been and will always be miss Virginia Hill, the ex-girlfriend of many gangsters and the woman that ultimately seduced and killed the infamous Benjamin “Bugsy” Siegel…. Remember that famous hotel he got shot in at Las Vegas? Its name “The Flamingo” was Virginia’s nickname… go figure…  Miss Hill had Bugsy and many other gangsters whipped beyond measure. Virginia Hill (Born in 1916) started her career at 17 as a prostitute after leaving a fractured household in Marietta Georgia for the big city of Chicago. As a prostitute she also waited tables and eventually met and slept with Joe Epstein, an… [Read more]

Is it worth the time to teach someone that you have slept with (and like) the fine art of making love? Will it yield you and her the rewards of carnal pleasure if she could simply learn to do this or to do that? Is it worth it, or are you of the mind that anyone who isn’t a wife or long-term girlfriend is a potential flight-risk that will take your secrets and use it to blow the next guy’s mind? Or do you believe that sexual curiosity and performance is something that is naturally developed and cannot be taught? In short, you believe that a woman either has it or she doesn’t. Recently the big Celebrity dish has been that of the fractured relationship life of the original Lady Dragon Halle Berry. The Paparazzi scramble to snap pictures of she and her daughter and the writers insert anecdotes of beauty, bitter, broken and sometimes… [Read more]

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The ultimate woman for any man is the mythical Ride-or-Die chick. The concept itself is one of selflessness that borders on insanity when you observe the women with whom this term was coined for. Originally a Ride-or-Die girl is the one who would hold your gun, hide the crack in her… crack and mule the cocaine overseas so that you both could be paid. The Ride-or-Die chick would get upset when you slept around but she would never leave, she would stick to Omerta and do 25 to Life in prison before allowing you to be taken by the authorities. She would have your babies, feed you and coddle you without the need for thanks because her love was unconditional. Yes there have been many women of this ideal and to outsiders it is a mentality that is seldom understood. When Tupac sung about this mythical woman back in his days of influence, every hood… [Read more]

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Is it worth it to tarnish your name as a woman by going after an athlete that has given you “the business”? I am baffled by the random Barbie dolls who pop up every other month to oust a celebrity. The reason I am baffled is because I cannot imagine any amount of money that would make up for the reputation that you get as a Monica Lewinsky, a Rachel Uchitel and a Karla Knafel? Lets not forget Super Head Karrine Steffans who mastered the game of split n snitch… I mean honestly what do you get? A boatload of money which probably makes you more prostitute than anything else, the ridicule of the world (and bloggers like myself), unwanted cheers and jeers, and a legacy as a slut to anyone that can remember your name. Can you believe I forgot Monica Lewinsky’s name while writing this? thank you Google! We always go at the… [Read more]

Talking to a beautiful woman is by nature an intimidating task for most men. It is a strange phenomena being that without much extras, a woman is a woman and beauty is subjective when you think about it. Still, you have women who are cute, women who are beautiful and then women who make you consider your self worth just by seeing them. The hardest woman for a man to approach is, you guessed it the drop-dead gorgeous ones. To get past this stigma a man must apply a few tricks to his mind in order to strike up the courage to get past what I call the armor of Venus. See the beauty is like an invisible armor that the woman is unaware of, sure many look and smile from afar, admiring her perfection but few if any will even engage her with casual conversation. A man who wants to get to know this… [Read more]

Women, why is it that when a man tells you that he doesn’t want a relationship, he just wants casual sex, you stick around? Is it because you think that sticking around will somehow lull the savage beast into liking you as a person eventually? Do you look behind the shiny red eyes and imagine a possibility of love when all he wants is the prize between your thighs? Why does one saying this to you go right into one ear and out the other? You protest, act offended, get upset but there you are calling, hanging out and eventually giving it up, forgetting that this same man had told you that all he wanted was sex. Why is it that you then get angry when he stops returning calls and coming around? Why weren’t you listening? Why is it that a man will tell you that he is unhappily married but still loves his… [Read more]

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The cycle of the love affair with a married man almost always ends in broken hearts, hurt, and wasted time. Sure you have those once in a million times where the man actually leaves his wife for another, but for the most part, it is a script for adultery disaster.  The love affair with the married man starts with a man who married for the wrong reasons and thus never truly felt fulfilled in his commitment to the wife.  They probably have kids together and that is the only bond they share.  The ideal woman for this guy is the girl who has been hurt many times by single men and is in the stage where she just wants someone to love her.  After they meet and exchange conversation, he realizes what he has been missing at home and decides to pursue his happiness with her on the side. He wants to fill a void…. [Read more]