Anybody else ever get this message from women seeking a date? “Hi I like your complexion, I really think we need to hook up, blah, blah, blah” Well I have yet to got this one from non black women but I am willing to bet it’s on the tip of their tongues when contacting me. What’s the deal? this is a new one to me yet lately, I’ve gotten quite a few women emailing that “compliment” in the last month or so. Everytime I see this, I think “fetish” or “shallow” because seriously who would say such a thing? Some quick sex is one thing but I probably won’t take you serious when you say this. I realise that dark skinned men are some sort of fad thing for girls nowadays but this is just weird. I remember the early days of school up until college where girls were looking for the bright, near-white type. Now… [Read more]

I always thought it was a bit of a slight when people posted about Gold Diggers on dating websites. This was until I realized I was dating one of these chicks after an accidental back and forth about my furniture. Now before I delve into the story, I look around me and I know I have what it takes to pull some Gold Digging tail and get away with it. What do I mean by get away with it? Well I mean that I can get the panties and dump her before she gets a single nugget of my bank account. How so? Well I have very nice furniture, a home in a nicer neighborhood and I am a business owner. What this translates to in the typical Digger’s mind is, I make good money but I am frugal and smart about my spending. This of course is true but what they don’t gamble on… [Read more]