Editor’s Note: I use very strong language in this post so care bears beware. There seems to be this attitude from people on the outside that the woman you cheat on your wife with had better look a lot better than your wife does. We take for granted the situation with which you meet and eventually begin sleeping with these women and instead imagine the world that Hollywood gives us in terms of “the jump-off”. Consider Tony Soprano, a husky mob boss on HBO’s The Sopranos who leaves the thick goodness that is his wife Carmella (played by Edie Falco) to go play in some of the most beautiful Italian and Russian women’s bedrooms. Tony pursues these women because he doesn’t respect his wife and family, he is a predatory person in all aspects of his life so marriage vows are a joke – he sees them, he woos them and then he jumps them… [Read more]

Do you know what being “office hot” is? It’s when you have a building full of average to butt ugly people and a regular, girl next door starts working there and everyone treats her as if she was Olivia Wilde. I am sure many of you have seen this phenomenon in action, whether you were the one admiring her, or you were the girl getting admired. Place this lady amongst the general populace and she would blend in easily, unnoticed by the masses, but when she goes to work, she is Venus on a half shell. This has nothing really to do with the hawte, so to speak, it has more to do with the length of time people are trapped in a building together and the ability people have of growing on you after a bit of time. I’ve been a victim of office hot, but I saw it for what it was before… [Read more]

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The cycle of the love affair with a married man almost always ends in broken hearts, hurt, and wasted time. Sure you have those once in a million times where the man actually leaves his wife for another, but for the most part, it is a script for adultery disaster.  The love affair with the married man starts with a man who married for the wrong reasons and thus never truly felt fulfilled in his commitment to the wife.  They probably have kids together and that is the only bond they share.  The ideal woman for this guy is the girl who has been hurt many times by single men and is in the stage where she just wants someone to love her.  After they meet and exchange conversation, he realizes what he has been missing at home and decides to pursue his happiness with her on the side. He wants to fill a void…. [Read more]