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On many articles written here I have mentioned the aspect of rejection bumps and getting used to the word “NO”. Easier said than done for you tender hearts, I know, but it’s important. The way that most players earn their stripes to becoming ladies men is the same way people at a call center get better at their jobs. In a call center you try your best to be cordial, stay professional and not lose your cool through all the “get lost” and ” lose my number you jackass” that you receive on a daily basis. It’s a hazing that usually results in a lack of care for the insults as you get seasoned into the job and master it. You begin to notice patterns, you learn to spot a weakness in their defense and before long you’re getting ace numbers. Just like a call center employee you have to step to girls and take… [Read more]

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While to more intelligent women the title of this article seems like common sense, it will surprise you to know that many women actually believe that men lack feelings. Recently a popular blog I follow ran a poll asking its female readers whether or not they believed that men had feelings and emotions. When the results came back, it was heavily in favor of us lacking. The fact that women believe that we have no feelings explains alot about the manner in which we are treated on dates, in relationships and in everyday life. A woman will disrespect you on a date and keep the conversation coming right after without even missing a breath. A woman thinks that she gets a pass to do foul things to a man and have it be forgiven when she tries to get back with him after the split, all because she believes that he will get over it…. [Read more]

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The other day I was reading a blog by one of these so-called “relationship experts” and a man wrote in to her asking how he could master the art of talking to women. Her advice to him was not to get better at talking to women but instead find one that he likes, befriend her and get with her that way. I thought it was some of the worst advice given to a man because many women have told me how they hate when a man comes at them from the friendship angle. I can understand this as it is not a genuine relationship and pretty much a bait and switch for her. I always tell men that they need to get their rejection bumps in so that the jitters and unpleasant feelings from a woman saying “NO!” is no longer in the equation when approaching. The advice she gave to this guy gets a… [Read more]

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When men breakup, they take it the hardest. Women? We a) Cry b) Cry with our friends and c) Cry with ice cream on the phone to our mothers, friends, sisters and any other female within a 5 mile radius… The beautician, the hairdresser – everyone. No one looks at a woman weird for crying. If she tears up, at the end of the day she’ll say that she’s a woman to get out of it and no man will ever question her. Put a MAN in the same mix and dear God, his heart might be in shreds but because of social conditioning he FORCES himself NOT to cry. He is a man and crying is “weak”, its a woman’s thing and he cannot be eaten alive by all the other guys that are not crying out there. I cannot imagine as a female the pain that men endure deep within when something hurts them. I… [Read more]

The reason why a man chooses to fade away versus telling you he doesn’t like you: One of the biggest disconnects between man and woman is a man’s innate wont to protect and defend women. Let me explain, when recently I wrote about men forgoing chivalry due to women acting badly a couple of women came forward to say it should be done irregardless. While I agree with this for men that were raised to behave a certain way (knights), I do warn that this also leads men to behave in other ways that these same women would not agree with. One issue that comes with a respectful man is his inability to tell a woman that he doesn’t like her. Why is this you may ask? Because just like he opens doors for her, walks on the outside of sidewalks, and does his best to protect her as the “stronger sex” – he also… [Read more]

So the woman you like is a tomboy and you obviously dig her but are unsure on how to go about courting her. This is probably due to your assumption that all of the cliché girly things would probably seem corny to her. Well the thing about that whole line of thinking is that you are probably wrong. Sure you both make fun of guys that you see doting on their girlfriends but deep down under the cynical outer shell, this tomboy is a girl. Treat her very much the same way you would a girly girl, but keep things a bit more realistic. Based on experience, you hanging out with her and sharing things that you both like has already confirmed the fact that she likes you too. Now does she like you for a potential boyfriend? That will remain a mystery until you come forward and express your love to her. While a… [Read more]

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A while ago we spoke on the hardship that beautiful women face in society from other women and men who lack balls. Well one of the most unspoken issues amongst men is that we too have a bit of that going on. Being a good looking guy is paralleled with being unmanlike, weak and at times it can even be dangerous (prison). I had a buddy named Girard, he was probably one of the nicest people I’ve ever known in life…  He was so morally good that being around him day to day just made you realize how corrupt and foul the world has made you. And it was genuine goodness, no religious posturing and no legacy or reputation to uphold, he was just a good guy. So for Girard to whore around or play the field it was damn near an impossibility, but damn if he didn’t have more chances than 50 guys combined…. [Read more]

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In the military they have a gun that they refer to as “The SAW” (The M249 Squad Automatic Weapon) and if you get in it’s path you will get mowed down by the rain of bullets that it’s able to impact on you. Similar to this big gun is a legend in the dating game that very much like a SAW will mow down anything in his path in order to score some tail. This guy will talk to every woman no matter the size color or personality, he really doesn’t care since his main goal is just to score. In college I knew a guy named Jerry who was the type of guy that deserved the moniker of SAW. Not one woman could pass Jerry’s eye sight without being hollered at. Jerry’s game always started with the same phrase: “Excuse me miss, excuse me miss, can I talk to you?” Sure he’d get shot… [Read more]