If a beautiful woman stays with a bunch of guys and she wants to know which one of them is madly in love with her, all she has to do is take note of which guy is trying a little too hard to be aloof, or mean to her for absolutely no reason. Welcome to Simpin’ 101, come on in and take a seat as I school you ladies and gentlemen on one of the main reasons why men are so resentful of beautiful women. There’s an interesting occurrence that comes up whenever you mix one part single, pretty girl with a few non-confident guys that like her and an oblivious confident guy who merely sees her has dating potential. See, the confident guy will have sex with some effort and attention given, while the other lot will sit back and become both resentful and hateful of them both. What makes this even more interesting… [Read more]

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Fun fact for the ladies: Men NEVER get over it. Women hate on other women due to the chance that this other woman can easily “take their man” due to the upgrade potential right? This is what was relayed to me from a female colleague that I debated with as she explained why Angelina Jolie was public enemy number one for women after acquiring Brad Pitt as her beau. The way she explained it was that a man standing with his girl who is a 7 (8 if she really tries) on the looks scale can easily lose her man to a 10 who puts in the extra sex appeal and game to upgrade to a 15 – which (according to her) renders us men into to slobbing, drooling, helpless cheaters. Brothers of the man race, this is how our women see it, and it is the reason why it is never okay for you… [Read more]

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On many articles written here I have mentioned the aspect of rejection bumps and getting used to the word “NO”. Easier said than done for you tender hearts, I know, but it’s important. The way that most players earn their stripes to becoming ladies men is the same way people at a call center get better at their jobs. In a call center you try your best to be cordial, stay professional and not lose your cool through all the “get lost” and ” lose my number you jackass” that you receive on a daily basis. It’s a hazing that usually results in a lack of care for the insults as you get seasoned into the job and master it. You begin to notice patterns, you learn to spot a weakness in their defense and before long you’re getting ace numbers. Just like a call center employee you have to step to girls and take… [Read more]

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While to more intelligent women the title of this article seems like common sense, it will surprise you to know that many women actually believe that men lack feelings. Recently a popular blog I follow ran a poll asking its female readers whether or not they believed that men had feelings and emotions. When the results came back, it was heavily in favor of us lacking. The fact that women believe that we have no feelings explains alot about the manner in which we are treated on dates, in relationships and in everyday life. A woman will disrespect you on a date and keep the conversation coming right after without even missing a breath. A woman thinks that she gets a pass to do foul things to a man and have it be forgiven when she tries to get back with him after the split, all because she believes that he will get over it…. [Read more]

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The other day I was reading a blog by one of these so-called “relationship experts” and a man wrote in to her asking how he could master the art of talking to women. Her advice to him was not to get better at talking to women but instead find one that he likes, befriend her and get with her that way. I thought it was some of the worst advice given to a man because many women have told me how they hate when a man comes at them from the friendship angle. I can understand this as it is not a genuine relationship and pretty much a bait and switch for her. I always tell men that they need to get their rejection bumps in so that the jitters and unpleasant feelings from a woman saying “NO!” is no longer in the equation when approaching. The advice she gave to this guy gets a… [Read more]

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When men breakup, they take it the hardest. Women? We a) Cry b) Cry with our friends and c) Cry with ice cream on the phone to our mothers, friends, sisters and any other female within a 5 mile radius… The beautician, the hairdresser – everyone. No one looks at a woman weird for crying. If she tears up, at the end of the day she’ll say that she’s a woman to get out of it and no man will ever question her. Put a MAN in the same mix and dear God, his heart might be in shreds but because of social conditioning he FORCES himself NOT to cry. He is a man and crying is “weak”, its a woman’s thing and he cannot be eaten alive by all the other guys that are not crying out there. I cannot imagine as a female the pain that men endure deep within when something hurts them. I… [Read more]

The reason why a man chooses to fade away versus telling you he doesn’t like you: One of the biggest disconnects between man and woman is a man’s innate wont to protect and defend women. Let me explain, when recently I wrote about men forgoing chivalry due to women acting badly a couple of women came forward to say it should be done irregardless. While I agree with this for men that were raised to behave a certain way (knights), I do warn that this also leads men to behave in other ways that these same women would not agree with. One issue that comes with a respectful man is his inability to tell a woman that he doesn’t like her. Why is this you may ask? Because just like he opens doors for her, walks on the outside of sidewalks, and does his best to protect her as the “stronger sex” – he also… [Read more]

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So the woman you like is a tomboy and you obviously dig her but are unsure on how to go about courting her. This is probably due to your assumption that all of the cliché girly things would probably seem corny to her. Well the thing about that whole line of thinking is that you are probably wrong. Sure you both make fun of guys that you see doting on their girlfriends but deep down under the cynical outer shell, this tomboy is a girl. Treat her very much the same way you would a girly girl, but keep things a bit more realistic. Based on experience, you hanging out with her and sharing things that you both like has already confirmed the fact that she likes you too. Now does she like you for a potential boyfriend? That will remain a mystery until you come forward and express your love to her. While a… [Read more]