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Editor’s Note: Fresh from the article haven of Ashy 2 Classy, guest author “Goddess Intellect” writes about her own journey into being accused of “thinking too much”. As men we have been guilty of thinking as much when our beloved ladies start in on the 100 questions and whenever our simple answers are transformed into the O.J. trial from a woman’s Grand Inquisition. Check out the post over at Ashy2Classy.net and join in on the conversation. Here’s a snippet: …they’re damn right- I do think a lot. I think about my future, sporting the entire BCBG spring collection and the many tasks and obligations I keep convincing myself I can get done before their due dates. To my detriment I have also thought myself out of relationships, taking risks in life and I’ve even persuaded myself to make many poor decisions even though I was well aware of the consequences. Conversely, I’ve also thought myself into… [Read more]

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Are you a great listener to friends and coworkers as they unburden their problems on you? Do you find yourself the one who always know the right thing to say, full of nuggets of wisdom and advice? Be careful, this will fast become your part-time job. Often times it boils down to a single individual complaining about a boss, a partner, or some other personal matter, and it is not uncommon to find your posture changed from listening passively, to participating actively by literally being the shoulder to cry on, and the arms to provide comfort. But it never stops there, and eventually, sex – the great pacifier and purported healer is added to the mix. Unfortunately, this is the modus operandi of most cheaters. Biggest in the game is the married person who puts it up front that “yes I am married, but….” Once you step over this line willingly, there are no holds… [Read more]