Is it worth the time to teach someone that you have slept with (and like) the fine art of making love? Will it yield you and her the rewards of carnal pleasure if she could simply learn to do this or to do that? Is it worth it, or are you of the mind that anyone who isn’t a wife or long-term girlfriend is a potential flight-risk that will take your secrets and use it to blow the next guy’s mind? Or do you believe that sexual curiosity and performance is something that is naturally developed and cannot be taught? In short, you believe that a woman either has it or she doesn’t. Recently the big Celebrity dish has been that of the fractured relationship life of the original Lady Dragon Halle Berry. The Paparazzi scramble to snap pictures of she and her daughter and the writers insert anecdotes of beauty, bitter, broken and sometimes… [Read more]

Keri Hilson has been naughty (if you haven’t seen her video for The Way You Love Me, check it out below) and all the negro blogs are going crazy in their own conservative way, begging for Keri to stop “trying so hard” and asking “why oh why” being that the song is pretty adult, stripper theme songish and all that jazz (double standards, list em if you can). For me, I thought the video was sexy but it reminded me of a misconception that many women, like Keri, have had for a really long time. Women tend to think that every guy can be enslaved by their vagina. In the song her hook says: “I got that kind of pussy that will keep you off the streets”, sigh, look Keri, you’re cute and albeit sexy but I doubt that you can lock up many guys outside of the weak simps out there with your golden… [Read more]

There seems to be this ongoing concern amongst women of our time that the standard of giving up sex within a 3-week period is making it hard to hold us men to a relationship. This can be very true on the surface but the thing you must understand is that sex is an activity to men, it isn’t emotional, special or complicated. For us men, sex is something you do to feel macho, sexy and on top of the world. It is a drug of choice with the only side-effects being STDs and children. This does not mean you can no longer hook us with sex, it just means that having us wait is an old and tired method that will have you wondering why your calls aren’t being returned. Being that as it may, if you want to hook a guy, you have to think outside the “box”. Although it may seem otherwise, most… [Read more]