Fellas when it comes to the Strip Clubs and Strippers in general you need to know early on in your relationship how you stand with your girlfriend/wife with the trust issue. Some women trust their man and know that he has morals and self control so no questions are needed after the fact. Most women and I will reiterate for you guys here, MOST women are not gonna be feeling you on it at all, so they will be pissed, berate you with questions and give you shit whenever you attend an establishment. This is why you should find out early on about her feelings on the Strip Club, her feelings on you going to the Strip Club and whether or not you can be honest, or if you’re better off telling her enough to keep her happy and out of your face.
Women Don’t Want The Truth – Just Cause They Sell It Don’t Mean You Buy It
Women disillusion themselves with rules and control vices with us men dealing with the Club – this is fact. Oh you can look but don’t touch, you can’t go up in there if their full nude, blah, blah, blah. Figure out where she’s at and figure out how the hell you’re gonna play it. Are you going to be Joe Honesty and really go in there, cover your face and turn down lap dances or are you going to be Joe Gangster and keep it on a “need to know” basis? Like I said before, women ask for honesty but they really don’t want honesty. Don’t be an idiot and play by rules you can’t abide to. You’re either a liar or a choir boy, there is no in-between, the pimp rule says “I practice telling hoes everything but the truth”. Sounds cold right? But it’s the way of things when dealing with someone who is being extremely unrealistic with the laws of attraction. You go down that road of telling her every little thing and you lose the book in your relationship, lose the trust that allows you to think for yourself and you can even become a cancer to your other friends.
Your Girlfriend Tells My Girlfriend Everything
What you tell your girl 100% affects your friend’s situations. All of us have a friend or two who we purposefully avoid inviting to a Strip Club or relay anything about the events thereafter due to the fact that they will report back to their Queen Pin. If you are with a girl that you love and you plan to keep hanging out with friends on a certain level then you do not want this curse on you. When you tell your woman everything she begins to pass judgment on your friends without you knowing it. Soon it won’t be cool to hang with Fred anymore because she “doesn’t like Fred”. Well Fred was the one who took three girls to V.I.P. last time you went and your dumb spooning ass told your girl this just last week. In hindsight you never should have told her that but you are so blind to love that you released the info without much thought.
This is why I feel this information is important for a single bachelor to hear. Come to terms with who the hell you are right now and make up your mind to stick to it. Are you a 100% honest, punishment be damned choir boy or are you a lying, pragmatic type of dude. They both sound harsh but when you consider the punishments for both, there is no easy middle ground when it comes to a battle axe wielding, ball and chain hefting, significant other. If you choose the choir boy path, then make certain to keep it real to your friends so that they know where you stand. You don’t do Strip Clubs, you don’t do “guy’s night out” and you tell your girl everything. This is only fair because you never know who will be doing dirt that evening, thinking that you have his back being that you have never shown your cards as a talker. Most guys assume other guys are of the pragmatic nature until they get burned with a “I know where you were yesterday!” Off of some second-hand info from the snitch’s woman.
When you have come to terms with your nature, as I have stated, own up to it, be fully about it and do your friends a favor by letting them know it. Guys night out is Guys night out, this sacred tradition has always been shaken up by random married guy getting in trouble with the wife, or choir boy playing gangster getting caught and spilling the beans on everybody. Find out your lady’s stance on your trust and her degree of jealousy before you go poking your head within the walls of random Strip Clubs. Once you know this, decide your stance and stick to the script.See some words or phrases that you don't understand? Check out The Dragon's Lexicon.