If there’s anything a man shouldn’t be – it’s desperate. Yet 90% of the single guys I know–are. What you get are 3 categories of men: The super desperate one (let’s get married in a week!), the “lets play it cool” one (doesn’t call you for 2 weeks even after he took your number!) and lastly the rare dude that has struck the balance of the push and pull theory.
Let me explain as to why being desperate (aka clingy and needy) is SO detrimental for a man. Ages and centuries have passed and MEN were once the gender that went out, fought and brought home food (and a lot of glory). To see a guy become desperate over a woman is truly a sad situation. Chill out with the marriage jokes guys, Jesus – the popular belief is that men run away from commitment, but the truth is they don’t. It’s the IDEA of commitment that they find scary. Think of it like a tub of hot water, if you plunge in, you’re going to scream but committing to someone at the right time is like lowering one limb after the other into it and making yourself comfortable.
Women want men of strength and independence
Strength does NOT mean that men cannot cry, they will and they must because before being man, they are human. And it is vital that someone listens to how THEY feel as well, men are more fragile than women. Men, If a woman is interested in you, you will know, believe me you will. If she isn’t however, please STOP hounding her! It creeps the average woman out and you’re completely screwed if it’s a strong woman that you’re dealing with.
Average women (who particularly won’t know why) will say “Eww… he keeps bothering me all the time!” The strong, articulate woman will just know up-front that it’s the eww-factor because if there’s ONE thing a woman relies on a man for – itis for strength (be it physical or mental). What’s the point of being with some needy guy who won’t let you out of his sight for 10 minutes and blows up your phone with messages of “Where are you? And why don’t you answer the phone”. Guys, if you do this – BE PREPARED for the girl to just to tell you to go to hell. Some will be polite about it; others like me will not be concerned at all about how we come across. It’s NAUSEATING when a creepy guy won’t leave you alone and wants to make you “His World”.
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