There are generally two types of women that guys will try to ignore: The beautiful and overly friendly girl and the seemingly “out of my league” hawt. With the first girl the thinking can be one of “she is getting too much attention from strange guys, so I don’t want to be lumped in with them”, or “she will notice that I am the only guy not sweating her, wonder what my deal is, and go out of her way to get me talking”. Normally when it comes to beautiful women, the reason why men ignore them is probably the latter.
This line of thinking can be easily snuffed out by a master she-wolf and is sometimes played to her advantage when she pours all of her attention unto Mr. “I’m pretending not to see you” and melts his firewall. Smart women that are somewhat interested in the guy playing aloof will come on with a hard offense to test the waters and through that first engagement, learn if the guy is a potential snack, or someone who truly isn’t interested.
Women Seek A Hunter
The ball is always in a woman’s court when guys play this game, but she will only play along if she finds him attractive. I will never forget watching one of those reality shows where the producers put 100 men in a house to vie for the attention of one woman. There was every sort of guy in the house: cool guys, losers, winners, douchebags, facepalm-worthy spazzes, but the one who stuck out the most was the guy who tried ignore game on the chick.
Talk about hustling backwards! One woman and you’re up against several men, so you choose to play the ignore game? That is a terrible idea! What came of this attempt to get the sole woman interested was that he got sent home because, as she puts it, he didn’t seem to be interested in her. The guy was not good looking enough for the belle to chase and this is why his passive-aggressive game blew up in his face.
Situations like this where you have that many men going for a woman; the funny guy, the good-looking guy, and the guy that reminds her of dad have the best chance of winning. So if you aren’t in any of those categories, you better talk to her or you will be sent home before you get the chance.
The ignore game is a default notion that shy guys will concoct in their minds when it comes to popular chicks. Don’t get me wrong, there are times when it has worked – like if you have a bunch of hate-worthy guys trying extra hard at a woman, your silence and focus on whatever you are doing may come off as “safe”, so she may break the ice and talk to you in order to adopt you as a white knight to keep the gamers at bay. Aggressive women are also a good target for ignore-game being that they themselves are the ones hunting in the first place.
So if you are single and a tad bit shy, you may want to steer away from this action when you see a woman that you like. You may not want to talk to her for your own reasons, but if you find her attractive give her a little smile and see where it goes.See some words or phrases that you don't understand? Check out The Dragon's Lexicon.