I understand that women are from Venus and we are from Mars or whatever planet you wanna call it but one of the most confusing things to me about women is the hate factor. Women HATE each other so much that when I meet a girl who has a close girlfriend, I assume that there is a superficial reasoning behind it. Now there are exceptions to the rule because I’ve seen some pretty tight, sisterly relationships that weather the storm of life but let’s be honest, unlike men, it doesn’t seem to take much for two women to fall out. Women think their friends want to screw their man, they think their friends are sluts, the list can keep going. The main reason for this article however is in my observance of women shooting units (nasty looks) at other women who has a guy on their arm. This tends to be more prevalent in cases where hater girl sees a guy who looks like her in either race or class, walking with a woman who is either outside of her race or class, or looks better than her (my opinion here). What us guys have observed with this behavior is if you remove the arm candy out of the equation and have us walk solo, hater girl would not even shoot us a glance. This behavior is laughably obvious to guys, even if you think that we aren’t noticing it. Women you are looking like fools and we do talk about you and your lonely, hating asses when you perpetuate this activity. Can I call a cease and desist for the good of all involved?
In the case of guys, a guy will look at a female regardless if she has a dude on her arm or not. Sometimes if a woman is feeling self-conscious, like” small town girl in her first interracial relationship” self-conscious, she will catch the looks and either get intimidated, or get violent (depends on the woman). Similarly, if a guy who is with an exotic (as in girl outside of his social comfort) woman starts to feel self-conscious he may catch a dude looking their direction and mistake it for hate. Let me say this, rare is it that a guy will look at a woman and man, regardless of racial construct, class or make-up and decide that he is mad at the girl because she is with the guy. The typically glance for the average guy can be made into a flowchart: Is she hot? No – stop looking, and find something else to do. Yes – Who is she with? Then you look at the guy. If the guy looks cool (in your opinion), like for me if it is a guy who has his act together, clean, looks like he’s a man’s man, then I smile and look for the next hot girl to gawk at. If she’s with a duck (aka obvious douche bag), pathetic nerd, or a dirt monger, I shrug and look for the next hot girl to gawk at. See the pattern? That’s the average guy, we really don’t waste our time gawking at other guys with arm candy (especially if you wouldn’t have the balls to step to her if she was alone), trying to get his attention so that we can show him how we disapprove of him.
Many times in terms of the self-conscious girls is that they will see me looking at them, wonder if I am hating on her man, and then try to play it tough. I get all of this from a single eye exchange. Women you are mostly alone in this sport of relationship hating, granted theirs a handful of bitch-made dudes who perpetuate this activity but these guys do not make up the majority of the male race. We are simple creatures, we like pretty things, all it takes is something warm and wet to get us off… pathetic, I know but it’s true. Still, our ability to bypass all other hang-ups in the pursuit of sex, makes us clearly superior to you who choose to hate on a girl for being with a guy who you wouldn’t even date in the first place… I jest. Women seem to unconsciously do this, I know it’s general but aside from a few women I know who could give two craps about another female, the majority seem to keep this behavior going. A few men, mostly introverted, nose breathers with racist or classist agendas tend to do this, I am not ignorant to that, but as I stated before, they far from represent the whole. Most guys know it’s a female trait… you know where I’m going with this.
So why do you do this ladies? I understand if it’s a guy who you want, nobody can blame you for being jealous or just daydreaming about the “what if”. What I find hard to understand is the hate you display for the female who has somebody, when that somebody isn’t even a guy you would want to be with. Do you want all women outside yourself to be miserable? That would make more sense to me if you just came out and said it. Is it an unconscious thing, where you don’t even realize that you are doing it? I haven’t even mentioned the females who purposefully flirt with us when the woman isn’t looking, licking the lips and all that. If you’ve read this article and you catch yourself doing it, just know that you are paying yourself a disservice with the activity and the guy does notice. Want to look stupid? Make noises and act like a dumbass when you a see a couple that doesn’t know you, I’m just saying, it’s only what the rest of the world thinks of you.See some words or phrases that you don't understand? Check out The Dragon's Lexicon.